I'm not getting what is going on either. I made a comment tongue-in-cheek and you went super-serious with feelings and stuff. I said "bad guy" in a comment mocking a fake situation, you went all philosophical about the esoteric meaning of "bad guy" and the societal and intellectual impact of the term. Not sure how you got something so heavy from a comment so light. I couldn't care less about the term to be honest, use whatever you want. By telling someone they will "get over" something you imply that the person is over-reacting and it is border-line condescending and patronizing. Why go down that road at all? Did I offend you by using the term "bad guy" in a flippant manner? Do you need a hug?
Read your first response to me. You're talking about me being condescending? Maybe I missed the humor in your comment and in re-reading it I'm still not seeing it as a comment meant to be a fun joke between you and I. Then, when I responded to your comment, and yeah I was a little annoyed with your first response, I wasn't being super nice. I'd even go so far as to say maybe I was rude. But then you post something that to me doesn't even make sense based on our conversation. I don't think I was ever freaking out.
I apologize for being rude and escalating things rather than taking the high road. My bad.