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    Quote Originally Posted by One Brow View Post
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    Monogamy and commitment are different things entirely.
    On their own separate merits, I don't disagree, but if you are speaking within the context of a romantic relationship, they are pretty much the same thing. You are either committed to that person or you are not. That doesn't mean there has to be commitment for the relationship to exist. You can have an open relationship based on love and respect, as long as both parties agree. But that isn't commitment.

    Whether you like it or not, we (as a society) have developed certain social mores. One of those is the expectation of fidelity within a serious romantic relationship. Sorry, it may be contrary to biology, but that's the way it is. But nobody is bound by this. Millions of people get around this by not committing themselves to one other person. If you can't be monogamous, fine. But you owe it to your partner to be honest. Maybe that spells the end of the relationship, but IMO, it's better than having to be deceitful for the duration.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gameface View Post
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    I only take exception to the bolded part because the cheating happened when they were apart after both going to different colleges. I don't think there is something mentally wrong with someone who is attracted to someone else in their social circle and it gets physical. Especially when were talking about people who are 19 or early 20s. Her official boyfriend is only around between semesters and maybe during holidays. That's one of the problems I have with long distance relationships, especially long term ones, especially where the people involved are young, attractive and socially active. Live a little. I think binding yourself to a monogamous relationship where you're only together a couple times a year is unreasonable. That's not monogamous, that's abstinence.
    Understood. I was speaking more along the lines of more mature couples or even married couples.

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    Do you guys think it's cheating if it's a teacher and student?
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    Quote Originally Posted by UGLI baby View Post
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    Do you guys think it's cheating if it's a teacher and student?
    There's another thread that deals with that. You're in the wrong thread. (I know it may be your intention, but it's still the wrong thread).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hotttnickkk View Post
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    There's another thread that deals with that. You're in the wrong thread. (I know it may be your intention, but it's still the wrong thread).
    Dang bro, was the neg really necessary??
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    Quote Originally Posted by UGLI baby View Post
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    Dang bro, was the neg really necessary??
    Rep war?

    There's another thread that deals with that. You're in the wrong thread. (I know it may be your intention, but it's still in the wrong thread).

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    I've never felt so lost.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UGLI baby View Post
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    I've never felt so lost.
    I've been there. Heavy drinking and a self-ban did the trick for me. YMMV

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gameface View Post
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    I've been there. Heavy drinking and a self-ban did the trick for me. YMMV
    What does YMMV mean? Saw that for the first time like 20 min ago and now a 2nd time. Universe trying to tell me something?
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