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If you love your kids, spank them. Life is a bitch and it will beat your *** into the ground -- if you don't prepare your kids for serious consequences, then you better like them a lot, because they'll be living with you for a long, long time. Screw spanking soft also. I spank my kids swiftly and hard. Get their damn attention and make it hurt, that way, hopefully, you won't have to do it again. My wife and I disagree on this one, but she has come around to at least not being mad at me about it. All it took was seeing how amazingly good the kids are when it's just me, and how horribly bad they are when it's just her. I hardly spank my 4 year old, unless it's for something like running into the street, or something that puts herself or her sister in danger. My 2 year old on the other hand... She's her dads girl, and just like her dad, spanking hasn't seemed to do much. I'm trying other things, but at least I know I'm getting through to her: when she does something wrong she automatically sits down so I can't smack her. Smart little ****.
 
My 2 year old on the other hand... She's her dads girl, and just like her dad, spanking hasn't seemed to do much. I'm trying other things, but at least I know I'm getting through to her: when she does something wrong she automatically sits down so I can't smack her. Smart little ****.

This is too funny, just the same in my house. I have all boys except my youngest daddy's girl who's about 20 mos. ****ing princess all the way. Mostly my fault though. :)
 
I have spanked my older two kids (almost 8 and 4 1/2) on occasion. It's the last line for me. It only happens when everything else hasn't worked. It's been a long time since my oldest has been spanked. She REALLY hates punishments of any kind, so she has come to realize what comes next and stops long before then. #2 is a little different. He still gets it sometimes. Not often. #3 is almost 2 years old and I'm starting to get into it a little with her. Just hard enough to where she can feel it through the diaper and know it's a punishment. She gets pissed at me and gives me dirty looks after.
 
I've always felt physical punishment works until the kid is able to reason. At that point you can start effing with their minds and physical punishment becomes harmful to the relationship. By physical punishment I'm talking slap on the wrists or butt. Heck their diapers protect them anyway. It's more about the act versus any type of pain anyway.

Given all that, I can tell you as a high school teacher that kids need more fear of their parents. Not enough of that anymore.
 
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