“When (you) hear something shared as racist, offensive or oppressive,” Smith exhorted, “ask one question: how would I feel if that were me, my wife, my daughter, my husband, or someone else I deeply love? Once you imagine that as someone you deeply love, if that situation disturbs you, then it’s time to take action.”
“It’s not as complicated as one would think it could be if you open yourself to have that moment of listening and understanding,” Durham added. “Empathy goes a long way.”