Infidelity

[bigb]

If he is your brother in law, does that make the cheaper your sister?

My guess is the cheater is his wife's sister.

Edit: If this is the case, watch out.

 

[bigb]

What are the pros of staying in a relationship like that?

I know a couple people who stayed with a cheating partner and their relationship is now stronger. They both appreciate each other more (their words, not mine).

 

[candrew]

Honestly though, aside from the cheating, the part about this story that makes me mad is that the sister-in-law knew about the cheating and never said anything. There seems to be a strong lack of morals in that whole family. To me loyalty doesn't mean condoning a family member's improper actions.

Agree 100%. To make matters worse, my brother in law actually supported that same sister-in-law for a couple of years when she was in her early 20's and still trying to find her way in life. It's disgusting.

 

[Chad Feldheimer]

I know a couple people who stayed with a cheating partner and their relationship is now stronger. They both appreciate each other more (their words, not mine).

This has to be more uncommon than common don't you think?

 

[Stoked]

This has to be more uncommon that common don't you think?

I would think so. My brother is back with his wife after messing up. It was a long hard road but I thinkt hey are better for it.

Personally I decided I could not do it. It depends on the person.

 

[Chad Feldheimer]

I would think so. My brother is back with his wife after messing up. It was a long hard road but I thinkt hey are better for it.

Personally I decided I could not do it. It depends on the person.

If it were a one time, got drunk and ****ed up, kind of thing. I'd be a little more forgiving. But four years? No way.

 

[Stoked]

If it were a one time, got drunk and ****ed up, kind of thing. I'd be a little more forgiving. But four years? No way.

Personally I am with you. But every case is different. What is the couples history? Do they have kids? Same friends? Are they religious? Alot of variables. I'm just saying I can understand those that want to work it out even though I didn't.

 

[Chad Feldheimer]

Personally I am with you. But every case is different. What is the couples history? Do they have kids? Same friends? Are they religious? Alot of variables. I'm just saying I can understand those that want to work it out even though I didn't.

Never said it would be easy. But if you told your friends and family why, I think they would be sympathetic. If they didn't, they probably suck anyway.

 

[TroutBum]

I'd divorce her. Ask for full custody of the kids and alimony. It's what she(most women) would do if the exact opposite happened.

If she has been cheating for 4 years:

A) doesn't love you
B) doesn't respect you
C) probably is hiding other stuff
D) would probably do it again

I'd be out.

My thoughts exactly. I can't imagine getting a bigger **** YOU than that. I'd take her for every damn nickel I could get, make sure my kids went with me, and we'd move to Seattle and buy a fishing boat. Boo ya.


Is it kinda sad that I want my wife to cheat on me now? My boat is gonna ROCK, eh!

 

[pickledXgrandma]

Does Wayne Brady need to choke a bitch??

 

[Hartsock]

I have no idea what I would do, but I do know if there was any way I might not get full custody of my daughter that would make it really really hard to get a divorce.

 

[candrew]

My guess is the cheater is his wife's sister.

Edit: If this is the case, watch out.

The husband is my wife's brother - I'm not related to the cheater at all.