One Brow said:
Any theory on the connection which does not rely on social stigma (you know, the type of thing that would be alleviated by affirmaiton, as opposed to tolerance)?
Sure:
1. The authors of a study done in The Netherlands were surprised to find so much mental illness in homosexual people in a country where tolerance of homosexuality is greater than in almost all other countries. In his cross-cultural comparison of mental health in the Netherlands, Denmark and the U.S., Ross could find no significant differences between countries - i.e. the greater social hostility in the United States did not result in a higher level of psychiatric problems. Ross, M.W. (1988): Homosexuality and mental health: a cross-cultural review. J. Homosex. 15(1/2), 131-152.
2. Saghir and Robins examined reasons for suicide attempts among homosexuals and found that if the reasons for the attempt were connected with homosexuality, about 2/3 were due to breakups of relationships --not outside pressures from society. Saghir, M.T.; Robins, E. (1973): Male and Female Homosexuality, A Comprehensive Investigation. Williams and Wilkins, Baltimore Maryland. 335 pages. Since homosexuals have greater numbers of partners and breakups, compared with heterosexuals, and since long term gay male relationships are rarely monagamous, that could certainly help explain why suicide attempts are proportionally greater for homosexuals.
3. A case can be made that the male homosexual lifestyle itself, in its most extreme form, is mentally disturbed. Gabriel Rotello, author of "Sexual Ecology. AIDS and the Destiny of Gay Men" is an openly gay advocate. He has noted that "the outlaw aspect of gay sexual culture, its transgressiveness, is seen by many men as one of its greatest attributes." Same-sex eroticism becomes for many, therefore, the central value of existence, and nothing else--not even life and health itself--is allowed to interfere with pursuit of this lifestyle.
Homosexual promiscuity fuels the AIDS crisis in the West, but even that tragedy it is not allowed to interfere with sexual freedom. And, according to Rotello, the idea of taking responsibility to avoid infecting others with the HIV virus is completely foreign to many groups trying to counter AIDS. The promiscuous person--either heterosexual or homosexual --may in fact be more likely to be antisocial.
Bluntly, then, core gay behavior is both potentially fatal to others, and often suicidal. It could be considered "mentally disturbed" to risk losing one's life for sexual liberation, doncha think?
Note: Some of the language and thought expressed above is attribuable to Neil Whitehead, PhD, author of "My Genes Made Me Do It! - Homosexuality and the Scientific Evidence."
https://www.mygenes.co.nz/