I may have misunderstood what you meant back in post #76. and #79.
If you or your wife were raped, would you tell your kids about it? If not, how can you be so sure your mom told you the truth about it?
How I know that is none of your business. I believe her, it happened and I found the joke funny.
Edit: You said "With very good luck, you'll never experience it nor have a close friend/family member who does"
Well as I have stated I have a extrememly close family member, R.I.P., that did experience and I am not offended.