To blame for what? Since when do I get into blaming people?
It's unfortunate that you think I'm primarily discussion bigotry and hate.
This is how "One Brow" threads actually get started. I make a couple of comments, not insults in any fashion, and white men just have to come back with insults and distortions, because they can't allow their hegemony to be dissed. So, I respond to the distortions, trying to clarify what I meant, and get back distortions and insults again. Round and round and round we go. One white guy saying that I'm blaming him for cultural forces that existed before his birth, another white thinking that I care more about internal feelings than external actions, both so certain of their opinions that they are perfectly comfortable telling me what I think (partly because, as white men, their opinions get treated with higher regard generally). Somehow, that's my fault, or at least, I'm not supposed to respond by explaining what I actually think.