New Yorkers are proud and resilient (some people say they/we are assholes for it). But I have the privilege of running support groups at a mental health clinic in Brooklyn; today I got to hear native NYers talk about their memories on that infamous day. Lifeless bodies littering Cortlandt Street and Trinity Place. Everyone covered in sooty dust. Sirens. Wailing. Bravery and terror. Everyone has their story here about that day, and it is my honor to hear people recount their experience of September 11th. Thank you all, JFers, for sharing yours.
For me, I was 18 and in my first month of college at the U. I had geography class at like 12:00pm or something, and as I was leaving the house to go to school, I came downstairs and saw my mom crying and confused watching the TV. The first tower had been hit, smoldering and terrifying. Then we watched as the second plane smashed into the other tower. Total confusion. We didn't know what the hell was going on. I ended up going to school that day, and perhaps my most emotional memory was absolutely hating my teacher's guts for playing down the significance of the day. He wanted us to act like it wasn't a big deal. I ****ing hated the guy for it. But now, I think he was in shock, too, and one of the ways people deal with shock is to act "as if": keep on with your routine and convince yourself it's not that scary.
We can't forget this day because it forever shaped the American identity. I stand beside my fellow patriots today, regardless your background, religion, race, color, or creed. Today is not about blame. Nor is it about terror. Today is about resilience, struggle, and bravery. Remember the lives lost by visiting the 9/11 memorial in lower Manhattan, but I urge you, please, don't take a damn selfie with a huge grin when you do it. The memorial is a place of reverence. It's not a tourist attraction. It's a place of healing, and when you smile in the place where 3000+ people were killed, you deny that your own life can be snatched right the **** out from under you. Much love peeps.
-Serious Jose