poked around?
sooooo maybe the tohers where also poking around
This. Altho tohers is a contraction of "the others" so saying "the the others" is silly. Like ATM Machine. But maybe you just misspelled "others?"
But, yeah. we have absolutely no knowledge of why any individual signed up for the site. It's guaranteed that a portion of them were just curious, a portion of them have permission from their spouse, a portion of them chickened out, and a pretty large portion of them are prostitutes. And, yeah, a portion of them are actually married people who use it to get a little on the sly. But which ones are which?