IMV, you either believe JS met angels, found gold tablets, and reestablished gods church on earth or you don't.
It sounds like you have been dancing around/struggling with the question that is central to all this for you personally. You are under no obligation to answer to anyone but yourself. Do you believe in the BoM, JS story, and the LDS as the one true church?
Seems to me, offhand from various impressions of your own remarks, that this struggle is your own, as well.
So here is my take on all this. I have sympathy for all of green's questions, as I've entertained them myself to some extent. I note that he says he reads the scriptures regularly, which places him in the class I call the sincere LDS conscientious scholar. If you're like that, you will torment yourself with serious questions your entire life. You might never get all the answers lined up in a neat little row, but you'll always be an honest man.
That said, how could God ever line up all His truth in a neat little package we could just take whole cloth and never see a defect in the fabric? I mean, given that it is placed in human hands and explained by mortals at one point or another?