Fair point. Conditioning is a factor. I'm going to play devil's advocate for a second just for fun and to expand the breadth of the discussion.
To what extent do you justify compensating for conditioning? Is it fair to society to OVER-compensate for conditioning?
Conditioning will always be there. We're all a victim of it at one level or another. And, ironically, for those that are able, hard work can overcome conditioning. in my vastly limited experience dealing with people on both sides of the "success" fence, it is my impression that those who can overcome conditioning and resist the negative influences around them also tend to be those who take advantage of opportunities when presented to them, and in the right way.
I disagree with the premise that we need to afford people excessive opportunity and aide because they've been conditioned. To think that people don't have opportunity to improve their life right now is just flat-out wrong. Just because people refuse to leave their comfort zone and take drastic action to improve their lives and situation doesn't mean they haven't been afforded opportunities.
At some point people have to be responsible for their own actions, regardless of their past, or regardless of the social pressures they feel around them. Even more so than with right or wrong, legal or not, they should be held accountable for those decisions that directly impact their own well being and prosperity.
Taking from the rich and giving to those that refuse to use it properly or even at all for their own long-term well being is nothing but waste.
We can lead the horse to the water, and then let him decide whether to drink or not. We don't have to drug the horse, transport it via horsey-ambulance on a horsey-stretcher of feather pillows, give it a mani/pedi on the way, give it a phone so it can call it's horsey friends, gently crane it over to the edge of the water, and make sure it has a flexi-straw in his mouth.
I don't disagree with the literal meaning of your words. However, when you are using terms like "OVER-compensate for conditioning" and "excessive opportunity and aide", it does make me wonder whether you think that would be any more compensation would be over-compensation and whether more opportunity and aide than currently exist would be excessive. It seems to me that you are deliberately loading your language.
I would also say that your notion of 'hard work overcoming conditioning' is itself the product of conditioning, and not a well-evidenced phenomenon.
Further, in this thread I've been primarily talking about investing in children and possibly young adults. Most are not at the stage where we consider them to be responsible for their own actions. Even men in their 20s are generally known for being irresponsible.