Having A Bad Night Advice From Parents Needed
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Thee Jazz Fan
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Damn buckets!!!!
countonbuckets
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She Would Not Like Me Sharing This But I Think Clarity Is More Important Then Tact But She Was Widowed Five Years Ago And Remained In Custody Of Ashley. His Folks And Sister Still Come Around And They Have A Loving Relationship With Mother And Child. The Kid Is Happy Maybe To Happy In Light Of Recent Events But Anyways They Have Never Raised Custody Issues. The Boys Birth Mother Has Never Been In The Picture. Its A Lot Less Complicated Then It Sounds. I Haven't Gotten Much Advice Yet And Would Very Much Like To Hear Someone Who Has Been In This Position And Can Relate And Share They're Wisdom.
Let Him Catch You Doing The Same Thing. Then It Wouldn't Be Weird. Your Whole Family Can Just Have Daily "We Wear Each Others Underwear And Play With Our Tallys" Day.
Stifle Tower
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14 year old boys are weird.
Seriously, wearing your GF's panties IS a bit off track, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or will turn into a cross-dresser. I think you need to call your GF and tell her you'd like to discuss what the two of you saw, your reaction and how it has apparently affected your relationship with her and with him. If you are both serious about continuing the relationship - and she'll talk to you - I think you should say that your response was really that a boy beating off is not a big deal; it's certainly better than promiscuous, unprotected sex. And you're not overly concerned about the panties; it's unusual, but not necessarily meaningful in terms of his orientation or future habits. But, if she is worried, you would be willing ti go with her to a medical doctor or child psychologist to discuss the matter, especially as it pertains to how best to re-establish a relationship with Ashley. It is a delicate position you are in with him as neither the father or a step-parent since you are not yet married to your GF.
I bet the panties are probably part of an Oedipal fantasy. He's a teenage boy, his mom is having sex with a BF who isn't his dad. Under the circumstances, the idea of "parents having sex" which sometimes grosses children out doesn't fully apply in this case. He'll grow out of it as he matures and has his own GF's.
Seriously, wearing your GF's panties IS a bit off track, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or will turn into a cross-dresser. I think you need to call your GF and tell her you'd like to discuss what the two of you saw, your reaction and how it has apparently affected your relationship with her and with him. If you are both serious about continuing the relationship - and she'll talk to you - I think you should say that your response was really that a boy beating off is not a big deal; it's certainly better than promiscuous, unprotected sex. And you're not overly concerned about the panties; it's unusual, but not necessarily meaningful in terms of his orientation or future habits. But, if she is worried, you would be willing ti go with her to a medical doctor or child psychologist to discuss the matter, especially as it pertains to how best to re-establish a relationship with Ashley. It is a delicate position you are in with him as neither the father or a step-parent since you are not yet married to your GF.
I bet the panties are probably part of an Oedipal fantasy. He's a teenage boy, his mom is having sex with a BF who isn't his dad. Under the circumstances, the idea of "parents having sex" which sometimes grosses children out doesn't fully apply in this case. He'll grow out of it as he matures and has his own GF's.
Terrible Advice. You Should Just Promote The Activity. Free Your Mind.
countonbuckets
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This Makes A Lot Of Sense And Its Been Such A Cluster That I Never Really Had Time Too Organize My Thoughts. Reading Your Post Was Like A Switch Flipping. I Get 14 Year Olds Are Weird To. I'd Rather Not Say What I Was Getting Into With My Friends When I Was 14. I Also Have Children Of My Own Who I Raised From Birth Until The Oldest was 19 And The Youngest 16 In A Prior Marriage. I Suggested I Could Talk With Him About The Birds And The Bees Several Times But His Mother Is Very Strict And Old Fashioned In What She Feels He Should Be Exposed Too. I Made An Inappropriately Sarcastic Comment About Whatever She's Exposed Him Too Has Worked So That Made Things Worse.
And Yet You Had Time To Capitalize The First Letter Of Every Word. Kewl.
Here's My Suggestion - Take Him Shopping For New Underwear At Victoria's Secret.
Pretty sure I know who Countonbuckets is now... LOL
