We use ours for birthday parties, kids ride bikes (no skidding!) scooters, play soccer, badminton year round. Such a bonus in the short days in winter. I shoot for an hour most nights, Have kids practices there and can walk inside the house after (my court is in an outbuilding). Saves me from the hour plus round trip to take kids to practice at The Warehouse (Stockton has an old Jazz court there, which is cool). Host regular pickup games as well.
My kids friends always want to come here. We put a portable projector out there and avoid the noise inside. The time saved and ability to always have our kids here has been such an amazing gift. Probably the best thing is the 1 on 1 time I get with my 5 year old who always wants to play basketball with dad. My only regrets are not building it sooner, and not making it bigger.
I've done my best to choose hobbies that keep me home. I quit golfing and started playing all of my pickup ball at 530 am or 9pm to keep time open for family. I have restored a number of Land Cruisers with my kids learning, playing ball at home with the kids. I know many with expensive boats that have a lot of great family time and experiences. I hate boating, but am happy that it brings many joy.
Most American's enjoy excess, with bigger houses, vacation houses, expensive boats, snowmobiles, season tickets, food quantity and more. If you can afford it, more power to you. I did see a regular phenomenon in UT where so many people lived outside there means, did not save for retirement, etc., and hope they don't regret it later, but most of my friends that live that way seem happy, so good for them I suppose.
I had a former business partner that had been to over 100 Grateful Dead and Pink Floyd concerts. It was his thing. I always thought it was so cool he did what made him happy. Life is so short, be happy, and **** anyone who judges you for it.