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I can see it now, eh?

personally, I thought Robin Williams was absolutely brilliant as Mrs. Doubtfire.

and what was that movie with Dustin Hoffman, Tootsie? Playing a man playing a woman playing a man, or whatever.

well, maybe it just means that men are better at pretending to be women than women are at pretending to be men, who knows?

The problem is that in both of those movies you knew who the actor was and what the story line was. You knew it was a man playing a woman. Now, like Hopper was trying to point out, how many movies have you seen where you really didn't know that the actor was of a different gender than that of the part they were playing? If you went into a movie and either character from Tootsie or Doubtfire were the focal point and you were not in on the secret would you really believe that they were female?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lLDjFKtNl4&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgOIEGz7o_s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDFqnky32pk&feature=related
 
While I see the play review as tangential, I'm willing to discuss it in detail, if you like.

And what you can see sets the limits of awareness for others, that the idea? Eric, are you honestly trying to claim that no homosexual ever gives overt signs of his/her sexual orientation?

I claim that, outside of actual intimate contact with men, there are not signs that are "honest, objectively observable and verifiable", the standard you presented. Are you interested in defending your own standard?

You're totally confusin the issue. A black man might well do a poor job of trying to act Japanese. Not the least bit of bigotry in recognizing that.

On the other hand, a man of Japanese descent, raised in America, might also do a poor job of acting Japanese, while a black man rasied in Japan might do an excellent job. The differences would be a matter of knowledge and general ability, not skin color. I would be surprised you disagree. So, why should the standard be different for gay men playing straight roles. Most especially, why should Rock Hudson's acting be changed from being seen as masculine to being seen as effiminate simply because the actor was gay?

Where the hell is the bigotry? If some transvestite plays woman in a movie, and manages to convince some that he is a woman, they will look back on the scenes differently if the true sexual identity of the actor is revealed (later in the movie, or just in public).

You mean, a transvestite man actor plays the role of a woman throught the movie, and the movie needs to be reinterpreted based on that fact about the actor? I don't see why.

This is "bigotry?"

Yes. Feel free to find a non-bigoted reason to explain it.

One was about a particular actor in a particular play. He then tried to discuss broader social issues and common perceptions. Don't confuse the two areas.

The author himself related the two issue unnecessarily, which has been my point in the criticism of this article.

I have seen movies (can't name one offhand) where, in the movie, a woman was trying to pass herself off as a man.

I believe "Just One of the Guys" was a movie about a girl who wanted to play soccer on the boys team. It was based on "Twelveth Night".

Anyone who claims that you cannot generally distinguish a woman from a man is blind.

So, now you want to change from the distinction between gay and straight men to that between men and women, as though the biological differences are of similar scope and proportion?

It certainly is not bigotry to claim that there are objective, observable differences.

How is this related to the differences between gay and straight men playing a specific role?

Speak for yourself. Someone else's "tone of voice" does not generally lead me to make whatever subjective evaluation of a situation that I end up making, based on my own perceptions and values.

I agree, but I don't see how this is responsive to what I said.

Then you should quit denying that this is your true intention.

I don't ever recall denying it. Encouraging other people to control themselves is not the same as controlling them.

Yeah, Marcus, that was one where a transvestite was involved. A main goal of the movie seemed to be to shock people into re-interpeting their perceptions of prior scenes. For Eric, that would mean "exposing their bigotry," I spoze.

So, now you are using a male actor playing a male role, where the character in question pretended to be a woman, as an equivalent to a transvestite actor playing a woman, as an equivalent to a gay man playing a straight man?
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDFqnky32pk&feature=related


Heh, Marcus, if that is a woman in that vid (I didn't watch it all) then I'll be the first to admit that she does a purty convincin job of pretending to be a man.

Just curious--does anyone else get the impression that at least 95% of these competitive body-builders are gay?
 
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I claim that, outside of actual intimate contact with men, there are not signs that are "honest, objectively observable and verifiable", the standard you presented. Are you interested in defending your own standard?

No, I'm not interested in "defending" the obvious in some extended argument full of verbal equivocation and disingenuous assertions.

You stand by your assertions, and I'll stand by mine. I'm am confident that the average person immediately understands that your claims are obviously mistaken. If you want to claim that you have never had any reason to suspect that any homosexual is that, without first getting into bed with them, I'll even take you at your word. Just don't assume that everyone else is that blind.

Same with the rest of your post. I get the feeling, Eric, that you somehow feel obligated to defend, and "prove," the validity and accuracy of any and all claims made by what this author calls the "gay blogs' (or whatever he called them). I don't, and am hence not artifically constrained in the conclusions I allow myself to draw.
 
No, I'm not interested in "defending" the obvious in some extended argument full of verbal equivocation and disingenuous assertions.

I'll just note that "obvious" is not a standard that is objectively observable nor verifiable, and in fact one you have routinely rejected when employed by the moderators.

I'm am confident that the average person immediately understands that your claims are obviously mistaken.

Assuming that's even true, does that mean the average person is accurate in their assessment?

If you want to claim that you have never had any reason to suspect that any homosexual is that, without first getting into bed with them, I'll even take you at your word. Just don't assume that everyone else is that blind.

Again, you move the goalposts. Lots of people of people have suspected me, or different straight men that I have known, of being gay, based on the "obvious". I've also know my share of gay men that everyone assumed were straight. Frankly, you probably can find a "reason" to suspect any man is gay. When your "reason" leads to an accurate conclusion, you remember it; when it doesn't, you discount it (this is a common feature among humans, including myself). One term for this is confirmation bias.

Same with the rest of your post. I get the feeling, Eric, that you somehow feel obligated to defend, and "prove," the validity and accuracy of any and all claims made by what this author calls the "gay blogs' (or whatever he called them). I don't, and am hence not artifically constrained in the conclusions I allow myself to draw.

So, you can come to your own conclusions, but must enslave myself to the opinions of others?
 
So, you can come to your own conclusions, but must enslave myself to the opinions of others?

Eric, we've had many discussions over the years. This is certainly not the first time that I have told you that many of your assertions appear to me to be generated by loyalty to partisan causes. I could be wrong, of course. But I see you as being much more devoted and dedicated to ideological positions than I (or most people I know) am/are. Just my perception. I'm sure you don't see it that way.

"I never submitted the whole system of my opinions to the creed of any party of men whatever, in religion, in philosophy, in politics or in anything else. Such an addiction is the last degradation of a free and moral agent. If I could not go to Heaven but with a party, I would not go there at all." (Thomas Jefferson)

My sentiments exactly, eh?
 
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Two different people make the same statement:

Martin Luther King: "John Jones is a black man."

Grand Wizard of the KKK: "John Jones is a black man."


Who, if anyone, is "insulting" blacks, or John Jones, here?

I'm gunna take a minute and answer this question in a way that I think many would (and do). That answer might run along these lines. Yes, it is obvious that MLK is not insulting Jones, and it is equally obvious that the KKK guy is. We know MLK doesn't have prejudices against blacks, and we know the KKK does. We therefore know that the KKK guy is tryin to insult Jones by pointing out that he is black.

Such people attack the statement, if made by the KKK guy, but praise it if made by MLK. Their understanding of what it "means" is determined by how they perceive the intentions and belief systems of the person making the statement. They would, if it were in their power, punish the KKK guy for making the statement in the first place. But if John Jones feels that he has been "insulted" by the KKK guy for that statement, I truly pity him. I pity anyone that weak and insecure, who feels that his worth or mental complacency is somehow dependent upon the approval the grand wizard of the KKK. Yet such people exist. And until the KKK guy says "I like all black men," they will feel personally insulted by his subjective beliefs.

“He that would be superior to external influences must first become superior to his own passions.” (Samuel Johnson)

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” (Marcus Aurelius)
 
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Eric, we've had many discussions over the years. This is certainly not the first time that I have told you that many of your assertions appear to me to be generated by loyalty to partisan causes.

As opposed to my loyalty being generated to causes that happen to pronounce things I agree with, I suppose.

I could be wrong, of course. But I see you as being much more devoted and dedicated to ideological positions than I (or most people I know) am/are. Just my perception. I'm sure you don't see it that way.

I don't think there is any single party/group to which I devote my allegiance, but I don't fear my allegiance being devoted to groups that put forth postions I agree with, for the duration that they put them forth, to the degree that I approve of their positions overall. I feel free to approve of a commentators positions of governemnt while denouning what they say about medicine. However, when discussing ideological positions, as opposed to groups/parties/people, I quite possibly do take them more seriously than many other people you interact with.
 
I don't think there is any single party/group to which I devote my allegiance, but I don't fear my allegiance being devoted to groups that put forth postions I agree with, for the duration that they put them forth, to the degree that I approve of their positions overall. I feel free to approve of a commentators positions of governemnt while denouning what they say about medicine. However, when discussing ideological positions, as opposed to groups/parties/people, I quite possibly do take them more seriously than many other people you interact with.

Just curious. Do you agree with the claim that the gay writer is "horrendously homophobic?"

Do you agree that he is "bigoted" (in a purportedly "antigay" way)?
 
Just curious. Do you agree with the claim that the gay writer is "horrendously homophobic?"

I don't see any evidence of animus/fear, so I would say there is no evidence to support the claim.

Do you agree that he is "bigoted" (in a purportedly "antigay" way)?

I would say he is bogted. Homosexuals can't make convincing straight men because they are homosexual, but straight men can make convincing gay characters, and apparently regardless of the talent/charisma displayed.

You have avoided any discussion of the writer's opinion of Rock Hudson. Does saying that Hudson makes a believable romantic lead in "Pillow Talk" when you think he is straight, but that the movie is a farce when you find out he is gay, change in any way Hudson's on-screen performance? To what do you attribute the difference, if not bigotry?
 
You have avoided any discussion of the writer's opinion of Rock Hudson. Does saying that Hudson makes a believable romantic lead in "Pillow Talk" when you think he is straight, but that the movie is a farce when you find out he is gay, change in any way Hudson's on-screen performance? To what do you attribute the difference, if not bigotry?


One thing at a time. First this. Yes I have addressed his statements about Rock Hudson, Denzel Washington, Tom Hanks, and other actors (and his estimation of the effect that "public opinion" has on the careers of such actors). Whether I agree with him, or not, isn't even the point. I take him at his word that these are his honest opinions and I cannot even remotely see how his opinions are a mere product of homophobia.
 
I don't see any evidence of animus/fear, so I would say there is no evidence to support the claim.

I would say he is bogted. Homosexuals can't make convincing straight men because they are homosexual, but straight men can make convincing gay characters, and apparently regardless of the talent/charisma displayed.


Now these two, the second one first: That's not even the claim he makes, is it? Have you read his article (which I have cited) or are you just goin on how the gay blogs had chosen to characterize his claims?

Now the first one: Then why this does Chenoweth babe (I don't know who she is, but apparently some kinda celebrity and a co-star with the paricular actor criticized) make such a claim? Why would the gay bloggers stir up an outrage to the point where this writer is gittin all kinda hate mail, and stuff? What is the motive here? What is the agenda?
 
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