Tom Pitt
Well-Known Member
I appreciate your rather sensible post. Usually most people on here think i come in bad faith when I truly don't. Pertaining to your wife's family, i think that's a bummer. I don't personally have any issue if an adult wants to be transgender. I work with a transgender and have never treated him differently. It's not my business if someone wants to live that way. But i do believe getting involving children in this ideology is immoral. And we have seen enough children transition and then regret it later to grant merit to that argument i think.I agree with most of this. I do think the goalposts have been moved, but moved from what to where? I mean, I think they went quite overboard with the way schools deal with transgender individuals, for example. But a lot of my right-leaning friends think that the very existence of trans individuals is moving the goal posts, not just the means of trying to integrate them into our society. You know, trans people exist, either way, it just depends on how you want to acknowledge them, or choose to fully not acknowledge them, or whatever. So the move has been from lesser acceptance to greater acceptance, which in my world view at least is a positive thing. The world is a better place when people are more accepting of each other's difference than less accepting, wouldn't you agree? Now we can debate the methods to advance that acceptance and that is where, I believe, things like schools keeping gender identity a secret from parents and encouraging kids to explore their gender identify (both of which were heavily documented in multiple news articles) is swinging the pendulum too far. But the real debate comes in the form of people like my sisters-in-law. They are coming this weekend to visit my wife, her sisters. They are died in the wool hardcore Trump supporters and deeply self-avowed "true christians" and they refuse to stay at our house, where we have ample room and my wife would be more at home considering she is recovering from serious surgery, all because our daughter is renting our basement and living with her trans partner. They said, quote "we will not stay in a house that contains such vile evil". So the existence of this person is a vile evil? Do you think these 2 women are isolated in this belief? If so I have some beach front property in Montana I would like to sell you, and you are being heavily disingenuous.
So which came first, the chicken or the egg. Or the "evil lives here" drive to suppress people who actually exist, or the moving of the goal posts way too far to the left all at once? I imagine they developed side by side.
But also, I have posted on here, at least 3 times, the article by Bourdain expressing his views about how the left elitists pushed the right regular folks too far and they pushed back, setting up the storm we have now. I believe that happened. Was is the first salvo? Again, chicken and egg. Left and Right have been at each other's throats for literal centuries at this point, where do you think the terms even come from? Why "left" and "right"? Google it.
So who started it and when? I guess everyone has to decide that for themselves.
But the question we have to answer is, how do we stop it and work for the common good more than for the power of the party? Or does no one care about that any more?
And personally i don't believe Christianity as an ideology is the problem. If anything, the message of Jesus Christ would help imo as the two great commandments are "to love the Lord thy God and to love thy neighbor as thyself." Upon these hang all the laws and the prophets. Basically, i think Human nature is the problem. Which is where i most fundamentally diverge with a lot of leftist ideology. I just don't think you can social engineer your way to utopia. The Bolsheviks said they would create the new man and we saw how that turned out. Often times when we as a society critique America, we are doing so with an outlook that works back from utopia rather than grappling with reality and the full scope of human history. Even the scores of people who proudly proclaim their hate for America and western civilization, do not truly desire to go live in a non western country and if they do, they may come to find the cultures of western civilization are more moral.
Regarding your final question, i may not have the complete answer. Obviously i naturally lean more conservative. And i think morality and traditional values are good for young people but it should be up to parents. That said, when i hear a parent say at 4 years old, their child decided they were a different gender than that of their biological gender, knowing what we do about lifespan, human development and brain development etc, i am rather skeptical a child can make that decision at 4 years old. So i think there is some lunacy there. My cousin for example said when he was 4, he wanted to be a ballerina and marry Batman but now he is in his 30s and is just a regular guy who works as an electrician and he has 3 kids and is happily married to a woman.
The media and political parties are a huge problem. They certainly have no interest in unifying the country. Man is political animal and they'll do whatever they can to get power.
My apologies for rambling a bit
