Google (or probably don't) incels.
There is a very large movement amongst the younger male generations that feels wronged because they have limited opportunities with women.
Yes women feel a lot of pressure to look attractive. Men generally just feel like they either are or are not attractive and that it is what it is. I mean the number one thing a man can do to be attractive is to be tall, so if you're under 6' as a man you might as well just kill yourself because women don't have time for your unattractively short ***.
Most people meet via dating sites now. A small percentage of men get an overwhelming amount of the attention from the women on the sites and a large majority of men get absolutely no responses from women at all.