That's terrible.
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That's terrible.
Yeah, it ain't about having crazy sex with a different girl every weekend. I mean, it ain't not about that if you want it to be, but I enjoy the company of women. If I were single I'd just be about having someone to go out to dinner with, or to a brew festival, or whatever else. I'd just be trying to hang out with women in a casual way as much as possible. And if it got to be a little more than casual then awesome. Acting like every date is a tryout for marriage is a great way to have a miserable time hanging out with nice females.
Bleh. No leeches.
Miggs
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It is teenager advice an it is good advice to keep the youthful mentality that is why I ask [MENTION=430]Dr. Jones[/MENTION].
In my opinion throwing away youthful attitude is accepting of impending death. Teenagers are so full of life an let things come to them as they will.
I did have fun on this trip, there's no question about that ... lots of stuff I got to that I wouldn't want to divulge here but on the potential for long term / marriage type relationship it hasn't been fruitful.
Miggs
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Hence Dr. Jones' sage advise.
Sage indeed even tho unintended this way.
My 10 brothers and sisters always get mad at me for rough housing with there kids at thanksgiving an Christmas.
They tell me I am not a child no more an to act my age. I do not care. Who do you think the kids steal my Maverick work hat from cause they love me the most of all aunts and uncles? The one who acts like a teenager.
green
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This. My wife and I chill all the time. We watch Phillies games together. We watch movies together. We run together. We lift together. We whine about life together. Yeah, we have sex a bit but that's just one piece of the puzzle.
Plus, look at most husbands and wifes. They are repulsive. They are stressed, lack money and are obese. There had better be more than sex or you're screwed.
My advice would be this:
Relax. Better yourself. Date, but casually. 1, maybe 2 times a month. Get a hobby or two. Develop it. Odds are your dates will suck and you'll meet your wife at the model train show or on a hike or at the post office buying the new commerative stamp.
green
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This. My life was built with my wife. I'm 35. The only people I could marry would most likely be some completely unaccomplished person. There's no way I'd screw over my wife's work or my kid's inheritance so I could have some screw on demand.
And I'm not having more kids. I'm done with that stage of my life. And I'm not raising someone else's kids.
green
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If my wife died I'd just focus on my kids. At some point they'd grow up and move on but then I'd find some other old dude and get Jazz season tickets. And the rest of the time I'd throw money at my grandkids so they'd let me hang around.
What would really happen is I'd go back to working six days a week. At least I'd be accomplishing something and providing value to the world.
What would really happen is I'd go back to working six days a week. At least I'd be accomplishing something and providing value to the world.