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Share as much or little as you'd like to about your family. I'll start.

My wife is an ASL interpreter. I call her the Queen of Unsolicited Job Offers because it feels like she frequently gets asked about applying for some job or another.

I have three kids: two boys and the youngest is a girl. My oldest son is autistic (or at least has autistic tendencies - we don't have an official diagnosis) and is developmentally delayed. One of the few worries I have is questioning whether or not he'll ever be able to live on his own when he's older.

My middle child is deaf. He has what's called microtia and atresia. In short his ears never fully developed (microtia) and he has no opening to the ear canals (atresia). He's been going to preschool at the Jean Massieu School of the Deaf learning ASL while doing some speech therapy. He uses a bone anchored hearing aid (BAHA) that allows him to hear fairly well, although it is sometimes hard to understand him when he's talking.

My daughter is little but really sassy. One of her favorite things to do is to tell me or her mom or grandma to "Go!" and leave the room so she can do something she's not supposed to.
 
Share as much or little as you'd like to about your family. I'll start.

My wife is an ASL interpreter. I call her the Queen of Unsolicited Job Offers because it feels like she frequently gets asked about applying for some job or another.

I have three kids: two boys and the youngest is a girl. My oldest son is autistic (or at least has autistic tendencies - we don't have an official diagnosis) and is developmentally delayed. One of the few worries I have is questioning whether or not he'll ever be able to live on his own when he's older.

My middle child is deaf. He has what's called microtia and atresia. In short his ears never fully developed (microtia) and he has no opening to the ear canals (atresia). He's been going to preschool at the Jean Massieu School of the Deaf learning ASL while doing some speech therapy. He uses a bone anchored hearing aid (BAHA) that allows him to hear fairly well, although it is sometimes hard to understand him when he's talking.

My daughter is little but really sassy. One of her favorite things to do is to tell me or her mom or grandma to "Go!" and leave the room so she can do something she's not supposed to.

Autistic children require intervention at as an early age as possible to maximize their chance of being normally functional!
 
Autistic children require intervention at as an early age as possible to maximize their chance of being normally functional!

We have him in special education as well as an IEP. We just haven't had a doctor officially say that he is autistic.
 
We have him in special education as well as an IEP. We just haven't had a doctor officially say that he is autistic.

Ok, so the 11 y.o. BIL I took to the Jazz thing with me is Autistic, Aspergers, ADHD, .... no official diagnoses as far as I know but has a lot of the symptoms of all three. So, there is a huge to do in their family about what to do with him. He goes to school but does terrible, but he is insanely good at building things, drawing, video games etc .... He took on all comers on the video games at the Jazz thing and didn't lose once in an hour. So the family is split between medicating him, which is nice because then he is calm but is sad because he seems dead inside. Or just letting him be which is sucky because he is THE MOST OBNOXIOUS HUMAN ON EARTH, but is good because he seems happy. His mom passed 2 years ago and his dad, supposedly works a ton (thats a whole nother story), so we take him everyday from 2 to 8 or so. I cannot do it everyday or I'll die. I literally cannot handle him everyday unless something changes. So my ? is .... how do you handle your autistic son? Any tips?
 
Share as much or little as you'd like to about your family. I'll start.

My wife is an ASL interpreter. I call her the Queen of Unsolicited Job Offers because it feels like she frequently gets asked about applying for some job or another.

I have three kids: two boys and the youngest is a girl. My oldest son is autistic (or at least has autistic tendencies - we don't have an official diagnosis) and is developmentally delayed. One of the few worries I have is questioning whether or not he'll ever be able to live on his own when he's older.

My middle child is deaf. He has what's called microtia and atresia. In short his ears never fully developed (microtia) and he has no opening to the ear canals (atresia). He's been going to preschool at the Jean Massieu School of the Deaf learning ASL while doing some speech therapy. He uses a bone anchored hearing aid (BAHA) that allows him to hear fairly well, although it is sometimes hard to understand him when he's talking.

My daughter is little but really sassy. One of her favorite things to do is to tell me or her mom or grandma to "Go!" and leave the room so she can do something she's not supposed to.

Wow you got 3 kids? I thought we were of similar age..... I'm still single (sadly)... LOL
 
Ok, so the 11 y.o. BIL I took to the Jazz thing with me is Autistic, Aspergers, ADHD, .... no official diagnoses as far as I know but has a lot of the symptoms of all three. So, there is a huge to do in their family about what to do with him. He goes to school but does terrible, but he is insanely good at building things, drawing, video games etc .... He took on all comers on the video games at the Jazz thing and didn't lose once in an hour. So the family is split between medicating him, which is nice because then he is calm but is sad because he seems dead inside. Or just letting him be which is sucky because he is THE MOST OBNOXIOUS HUMAN ON EARTH, but is good because he seems happy. His mom passed 2 years ago and his dad, supposedly works a ton (thats a whole nother story), so we take him everyday from 2 to 8 or so. I cannot do it everyday or I'll die. I literally cannot handle him everyday unless something changes. So my ? is .... how do you handle your autistic son? Any tips?

My son (7) isn't on medications and doesn't typically show anything to make us think he has ADHD. But he is developmentally delayed in terms of understanding things in general. So for now he's in special education and he has a great teacher at his school. Perhaps the biggest issue my son has is that when he doesn't get his way he completely FREAKS OUT. We try our best to limit this from happening, but all in all it can't be an easy life for the little guy when so many things upset him SO much.
 
On the real, they are all wonderful people, and I love them dearly.

Especially the really hot cousins.

Joking.

But not really joking, tbh.
 
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You're the same age as my brother. He too is single. One of the last times I saw my grandma before she passed away, she told him to "get busy!"

Haha.. everytime i call my grandma once we've said hi and how are you and stuff, like clockwork she'll say "Hurry up and find a nice girl".
 
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