Let’s pretend there’s a dance you want to go to. There’s a neighbor girl that’s really cool, she’s fun, and she’s cute, and she really wants to go with you. Thinking that, hey, who knows, maybe Shania Twain is going to show up and want to go with you, and you need to keep that option open, so you just kinda ignore your neighborhood girl. Well, when it gets down to it you find out that, no, Shania Twain isn’t going out with you, so you end up going to the dance with a few of your buddies who also don’t have dates. Neighbor girl, on the other hand, goes with someone else who wanted to ask her.
Next dance rolls around, what happens?
Can we take the approach of always leaving that girl on the back burner, just assuming she’s there when called upon, just because she wanted to go with us earlier, but we held out for a “possible” Shania Twain but ended up going with a couple guys?