What's The Last Movie You’ve Seen?

[The Midnight]

You stupid ****. Those men are a minority not the rule. Most married men of five, ten or twenty years cant imagine life without their wives and families

That’s true for those still married.

Last I checked though the divorce rate is about 50% .. and again pretty sure the majority of divorced men have learnt their lessons and go with younger.

 

[Rubashov]

That’s true for those still married.

Last I checked though the divorce rate is about 50% .. and again pretty sure the majority of divorced men have learnt their lessons and go with younger.

Its actually going down you spastic

 

[LogGrad98]

Well I dunno what it’s like where you are, but real life over here older men are enjoying their later years with younger women, not women their age.. lol..

So they all just say "hey Mildred, thanks for the years of loyalty and ****, and the 4 sons. But you're old and fat now and there are friends of our kids willing to sex with me so I'm out. See ya sucker!"

Sounds like a great ideal to strive for.

 

[The Midnight]

Its actually going down you spastic

Quick question, if not yet married, do you prefer younger or your age?

 

[The Midnight]

So they all just say "hey Mildred, thanks for the years of loyalty and ****, and the 4 sons. But you're old and fat now and there are friends of our kids willing to sex with me so I'm out. See ya sucker!"

Sounds like a great ideal to strive for.

That’s what’s happening.. lol..

 

[Rubashov]

Quick question, if not yet married, do you prefer younger or your age?

Im now in my 40s and I want a family, so Im looking at 28-35 as a guideline but not a rule. My last partner was 39 for instance.

 

[LogGrad98]

That’s true for those still married.

Last I checked though the divorce rate is about 50% .. and again pretty sure the majority of divorced men have learnt their lessons and go with younger.

Well apparently way less than half of those men get with younger women.

When men remarry, they go way younger. Women pick someone older.

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Dude you might want to seek out jail bait but aside from a fling with the babysitter, which is more a fantasy then any kind of reality for the vast majority of men, most men want women close to their own age. For a huge variety of reasons. And if there is an entire society based on men leaving their spouses of many years to screw barely illegal teens well that society is likely headed for a severe downfall. Almost sounds like India where women are still viewed as property. If it makes you sleep better at night to pretend that "everyone is doing it", well good for you I suppose, but it's awfully hard to justify realistically no matter how many hoops you jump through.

And by the way, I'm not continuing this discussion, you are. So it definitely bugs you on some level. Maybe women your own age aren't interested in you, you do come across somewhat immature for your age, seriously no offense here, we're all weird in some way. So compensating is understandable. And if it's flings, well just own it. Say "I wanna **** me some teenagers before I settle down". But continually trying to justify something that is generally socially stigmatizing feels a little desperate and creepy.

But I say this in all sincerity, you do you bro and I genuinely hope it makes you happy.


Edit: by the way I've been reading about this since we started this conversation. Apparently in various polls Asian women, particularly where you are now, are mostly interested in older men from the West due to their perceived affluence. There are cases of young Thai wives, for instance, marrying some old coot then fighting the family in international Court when he dies to get his money. Apparently somewhere around 3rd or 4th reason down the list is "maturity". Most of it has to do with money. So there is that.

 

[The Midnight]

Im now in my 40s and I want a family, so Im looking at 28-35 as a guideline but not a rule. My last partner was 39 for instance.

Well there you go.

 

[The Midnight]

Well apparently way less than half of those men get with younger women.

When men remarry, they go way younger. Women pick someone older.

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Well about half is +/- 5 years. So let’s call that a wash.

But 38% goes for 6 or more years younger, while 6% goes for older.

I think it’s pretty clear.

 

[The Midnight]

y in various polls Asian women, particularly where you are now, are mostly interested in older men from the West due to their perceived affluence. There are cases of young Thai wives, for instance, marrying some old coot then fighting the family in international Court when he dies to get his money. Apparently somewhere around 3rd or 4th reason down the list is "maturity". Most of it has to do with money. So there is that.

I did mention financial stability as factor.

 

[Miggs]

Exactly my point.. men usually get bored of their wives, have an affair with a younger woman and murder their wives.

It’s human nature for men to go for younger.

Log seems to think it’s “weird”.

Or the wife just loses any interest in sex giving the husband no other choice other than divorce.

 

[Sardines]

I imagine it can be hard to find a woman who isn't too old for baby talk...