According to whom?
The etymology of the word. The way they are used in mainstream culture. History. Personal experience.
Each and every time I say, ...
You and your friends are welcome to play whatever sort of Humpty Dumpty games you wish. In another 40 years, the word may have lost all it's sting. Words are not inhyerently evil, but the connotations society has attached to them can make them unfit for polite company.
Either way, it will still be the same word.