One of the most interesting things I found about Utah are the people who hate the Mormon Church and the "culture" of Utah, but love all of the benefits that culture brings. Utah emphasizes education, youth, community compassion, experiences less crime, is more affiliated with the outdoors, and generally gets its infrastructure right. It is also a great place to do business because of all of the above plus the ability to find someone to speak about any language you need from the general populace. Non-Mormons from all over move to Utah for these benefits. Most recognize that the prevailing culture is the reason that these advantages exist, and yet have no need to become Mormon or badmouth Mormons.
Obviously, this is in the aggregate. You may have a Mormon neighbor who is the worst person on Earth. It is understandable if that shapes your overall view. I do get the feeling that many of the people who complain the loudest would complain no matter what culture or overall situation they are placed in because happiness is rarely ever an external factor.
I mean in Tucson, I see articles and hear talk about how Tucson needs to do more things like Salt Lake City. Many of those things aren't ever going to be available here because of culture. Another percentage want to be Portland. That ain't happening either because Portland has their own culture that can't be transplanted into Tucson. And if you tried to take the culture of Tucson and wire in bits from those other cities, we would stop being what is great in THIS city.