I've argued with my wife saying that I think the electric car market is hurting themselves by constantly trying to sell cars based on range. If I had an electric car it would primarily be for a daily commute where I'd be unlikely to drive more than 50 miles, so a range of 90 miles would be way more than enough. It would significantly reduce the weight of the vehicle to have less battery, less battery would use less battery (AHs) per mile, the cost reduction by having less battery would be significant.
It sounds like both of you would be good candidates for such a car. It wouldn't have to be underpowered or ultra compact, it'd just have limited range (90 miles give or take). Would that be something you'd want or is it important to also be able to take the E-car on road trips? My idea is that a family would typically have another vehicle that either allowed them to carry more people, carry more cargo, haul stuff or go longer distances that was gas powered.
I looked at a lot of different options for a commuter in the electric space. I have been a prius owner for 15 years now (we have had 3) and I first was looking at Prius prime, but it didn't have the range for my commute one way even, let alone round trip. Then I looked at fully electric, like Tesla and others, but I didn't want it to be "land-locked" either so to speak. As in, I can't really take the tesla to visit my parents and family in Utah as I would have to stop somewhere for an hour to charge the dumb thing and I usually like to just drive straight through, so I knew I needed a PHEV. I finally settled on either the BMW i3 (used as they don't make it anymore) or the Hyundai Ionic, or the Honda Clarity. I drove all 3, found the Clarity to be the best ride and best interior space with the best range (up to 45 miles all electric) with reasonable range with the gas engine, and I found one for a great price, fully loaded with all available bells and whistles including on-board GPS, lane-keep assist, adapting cruise, all that crap, and I still get the $7500 tax credit this year, so I went that route.
It is exactly what I wanted. Fun to drive, zippy for its size (it is basically between an Acura TLX and an Accord, both in size and syling, and interior. Bigger than an accord by a little, and nicer interior, but not quite as big or nice as the TLX) and very comfy inside, with great seats and an almost ethereal ride that conveys what is happening on the road at the same time that it feels like gliding across a smooth floor in your socks. Seamless acceleration at a higher clip than expected thanks to the electric motor drive, and it has some real oomph if you switch to sport mode or just mash the electricity-pedal (not really the gas pedal anymore). And I get pretty much all the way to work on a charge and all the way home after charging it at work.
It can still go on long trips, as the gas engine is essentially a range extender, but man, on full-hybrid mode it is very anemic. The gas engine screams as it tries to recharge the battery and run the motors at the same time. You have to finagle with the weird hybrid- or hybrid-charge-modes to make sure you have the oomph to get up long hills and such, otherwise you are crawling along at 55 while the gas engine screams at you. Still a comfortable ride but a bit harrowing for longer trips. I'll still take it to visit the fam but I have to manage the electricity charge and output unless I want to hear the hybrid system getting mad the whole way. And I have to fill it up one or 2 more times than I would in my wife's van, let's say, or my Prius.
On full electric commute mode, as stated, I get about 200+ mpg, including burning extra gas on some slightly longer trips on weekends. I have had stretches in the year I owned it that I went almost 2 months without adding a drop of gas. But as a pure hybrid it gets about 40 mpg, maybe a little better, and is a rougher experience than it should be. But I bought it as a commuter and with the $7500 rebate it cost me less than a comparably-equipped Corolla or Civic, and as a commuter it is exactly what I wanted. I love driving it, I feel at home in the cockpit since it fits my larger size well, just a nice comfy ride home at the end of a ****** day at work. Nice stereo, nice interfaces with the driver.
Of course there are plenty of quibbles including weird exclusions from the safety package (like blind-spot monitoring...not even offered as an option), and the front USB ports are ready to take a cable plugged right into them, but they are anemic at best at 1.2 amps. Seriously powerful electric car with USB ports that will barely maintain a charge on a phone if someone is using it while plugged in. That's stupid. Also it has the seemingly popular "flying-buttress" layout between the passenger and driver seat that impinges on the leg space a bit and is basically useless for anything but storing crap. Can't even fit a box of tissues under there. But really I have been happy with it. Glad I got one before they were discontinued.