Look its honest work, but there can be too much of it. Without bragging about myself being a long distance man, my two minutes with Hearsky's mum generally include, pants off, in, out and a post coital cigarette That's what the ladies expect, and they respect it. You don't want to over deliver, get weighed down with any of that continental nonsense, short, sharp and to the point. An approach to be appreciated in any walk of life.