Hartsock
Banned
Just curious as to people opinions on spanking their kids. My sister is completely 100% against the idea, she says her kids don't even know what a spanking is. Her kids are also giant pains in the ***. So is my sisters little brother, he is 7, the accident if you will, he is literally the worst kid I have ever been around in my life. He gets probably 10 to 15 verbal warnings before they just give up and let him do whatever they were trying to stop him from doing. I know a decent amount of kids that have never been spanked and every single one of them is a little ****.
I was spanked maybe 3 or 4 times in my life, after those few times I realized that if I didn't behave it was a definite possibility. I have spanked my daughter who is 2 and a half maybe twice, very very lightly. Now when I tell her to stop doing something after the 3rd time I ask her if she wants a spanking, she decides she will listen all of the sudden.
I have seen parents cross the line when it comes to spanking, like really hitting them hard, or using belts or spoons, but a little smack on the *** to let them know you aren't going to be pushed around is necessary sometimes.
I'm sure there are kids who haven't ever been spanked who are just fine, I just haven't met them. Anyways not here to judge, just curious as to what you guys opinions are on the matter.
I was spanked maybe 3 or 4 times in my life, after those few times I realized that if I didn't behave it was a definite possibility. I have spanked my daughter who is 2 and a half maybe twice, very very lightly. Now when I tell her to stop doing something after the 3rd time I ask her if she wants a spanking, she decides she will listen all of the sudden.
I have seen parents cross the line when it comes to spanking, like really hitting them hard, or using belts or spoons, but a little smack on the *** to let them know you aren't going to be pushed around is necessary sometimes.
I'm sure there are kids who haven't ever been spanked who are just fine, I just haven't met them. Anyways not here to judge, just curious as to what you guys opinions are on the matter.