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How do you get away with it?

Whether you post here a lot or a little..

how do you justify?

OR, better said, how do you HIDE your time?

When the boss walks by..

When the wife walks by....



For me: I don't have to worry about work, but wife.. yikes..

I have email up and a couple excel spreadsheets.. I shrink JF as she walks by .. but enough about me....... wuddya do?

Boy this is a long thread with probably the single most important issue to JazzFanz folks of all time.

I don't claim to be getting away with it.

I just don't complain about the book she's reading.
 
I'm not in favor of divorcing. Marriage is for life. Through sickness & in health.

When you have divorce the kids are the ones who bear the burden, and they shouldn't have to.

I'll leave it at that.

You saw the part where he said his children were grown though, right?
 
You saw the part where he said his children were grown though, right?

I'm not gonna get into what his personal issues are here. I don't know when his divorce was, what the circumstances were, who was right, who was wrong, what the custody arrangements were, etc, etc, etc, etc.


I'm simply saying I hate seeing kids growing up in a broken home.
 
I'm not gonna get into what his personal issues are here. I don't know when his divorce was, what the circumstances were, who was right, who was wrong, what the custody arrangements were, etc, etc, etc, etc.


I'm simply saying I hate seeing kids growing up in a broken home.

me too
 
I'm not gonna get into what his personal issues are here. I don't know when his divorce was, what the circumstances were, who was right, who was wrong, what the custody arrangements were, etc, etc, etc, etc.

I'm simply saying I hate seeing kids growing up in a broken home.

You made the decision to have them. It's on YOU to make sure they grow up in a happy and loving family.

Otherwise, don't have them.

You're not gonna get into what my personal issues are here - but you're telling me that I suck because my kids came from a broken home, and I shouldn't have had them? Try speaking out of only one side of your mouth, people might understand you better.

You, presumptive little ****, made assumptions that were incorrect without knowing all the facts. Here are the facts. And it's not like my sitch is a secret for the long-timers on here.

First wife divorced me. I didn't want it, and I didn't have a choice - even if I understood her reasons. I am an ugly SOB after all. She was the mother of my children. That's right - I DID NOT BREAK THAT HOME. My first ex-wife did.

Second wife (the one I was referring to in my OP) and I had no children together. Thanks be to the Great Spaghetti Monster in the Sky. I divorced her cuz she was nucking futs and we had a terrible relationship. I should have done it 6-7 years sooner. Very glad she's gone.

So... are you always such a douche, or just most of the time?
 
You're not gonna get into what my personal issues are here - but you're telling me that I suck because my kids came from a broken home, and I shouldn't have had them? Try speaking out of only one side of your mouth, people might understand you better.

You, presumptive little ****, made assumptions that were incorrect without knowing all the facts. Here are the facts. And it's not like my sitch is a secret for the long-timers on here.

First wife divorced me. I didn't want it, and I didn't have a choice - even if I understood her reasons. I am an ugly SOB after all. She was the mother of my children. That's right - I DID NOT BREAK THAT HOME. My first ex-wife did.

Second wife (the one I was referring to in my OP) and I had no children together. Thanks be to the Great Spaghetti Monster in the Sky. I divorced her cuz she was nucking futs and we had a terrible relationship. I should have done it 6-7 years sooner. Very glad she's gone.

So... are you always such a douche, or just most of the time?

Nope, all that stuff is entirely your business, and I do respect that. That's why I said I didn't want to get into it....


Unfortunate things happen to us all the time. All we can really do is try hard and do the best we can in each situation. As long as we have love in our hearts, hopefully we can make this world a better place from when we were born, compared to when we passed away. I truly believe in that.

I've often poured my heart out in this forum about the shortcomings of my life for those who have not yet experienced it, so that they can learn from it and not make the same mistakes that I've made.

If only 1 person benefited from that, then I can die a happy man.
 
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