I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.
(I'm the dark horse in the family).
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.
One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
Black sheep
Dumbass
Jk, nothin but love GF
Black sheep
Dumbass
Jk, nothin but love GF
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to ask her and report back.
I think it has to do with the size of my member.
I'm a dark horse.
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.
One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
Did she try to oversell certain things(career, money) etc. because she was aware that those were her standout areas and that her competition(younger girls) might best her in other areas? That's pretty much how I would project that type of relationship going. Maybe not on date 1, but women seem hyper aware of other potential women that could be in your life instead of them. Whereas I've heard so many women complain about men over the years that I don't think that way at all. And I'm guessing most guys don't either.
Plus, like I've said, I've never actually dated older women, but I have been hit on by a decent amount, and it's always super creepy. Like them saying how they could take care of me financially and stuff. I'm guessing most guys come off like some of the older women I've encountered. I'm glad I'm not a girl.