No it does not.
On telling someone who the "real racist" is
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No it does not.
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I am white so I probably can't say. But there is a salvadoran place here that makes the best pupusas I have ever had. They have $1 pupusas on Wednesdays, so that is a killer deal, and at work it has become known as Pupusa Wednesday. Normally some people at work pick them up, and I just pay for them with the company card, for work lunches obviously. One night I was running late so I decided to pick them up. I called in my order, 20 pupusas (we have ordered as many as 100 at a time...good times =) and they said it would be about 30-45 minutes. I got there a little early and engaged one of the waitresses in small talk, talked up the pupusas big time, and noticed I was the only white person in the whole place. They seemed very good-natured, and I ordered a drink while I waited. And waited. And waited. And waited. 45 minutes in (after giving them nearly a half hour after I ordered, so now an hour and 15 minutes) I asked how much longer it would be. The women behind the counter all gave me weird looks and glanced over their shoulders. One of them told me it would be just a few more minutes. During this time I witnessed a lot of non-white people coming in and ordering, anywhere from 10 to 50 pupusas (can tell from the packaging), and I asked one of them who had to wait a few minutes for what looked like 30 or so if he called in his order, which he said he never did like it was a stupid idea to call in an order. He had his order in about 10 minutes. They all ordered, paid, got their food, and left, and none of them were white.
And still I waited. And waited. I was about ready to ask for my money back when a very disagreeable male come out and asked me what I had ordered. I told him and he turned away and went in the back again, slamming the door, blabbering loudly in spanish I assumed. I looked around and everyone in the place were looking at me, workers and customers alike. I felt incredibly self-conscious and was about to just walk out when one of the women came out with a bag with my order. Normally they are piping hot when we get them, but these were luke-warm at best (could feel it through the package). She was very apologetic until he yelled something at her and she just turned away. I did catch a few words, like the "P" word, if you know what I mean. And as I left no one would make eye contact with me.
So at work I told my co-workers about this, and about then realized that normally the people who pick up the orders are non-white as well. They laughed and said "yeah that guy hates whites, we should have warned you."
I think I got a small taste of what that is like (I have traveled enough that it wasn't my first such experience like that either). I think I am also intelligent enough to be able to empathize from such experiences, although there are obviously certain things I will likely never be able to directly relate to.
As an aside, 12 Years a Slave is a great example of what it would be like for someone to gain that experience first-hand when they grew up not really knowing what it was like to be a slave at all, although I am sure still experienced racist actions during his life before the events of the movie. Eye-opening movie really.
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One also wonders why a white person who had experienced discrimination for some reason other than race (gender, sexual orientation, religion, political affiliation, disability, etc.) would have nothing valid to say about racism. And are only the people who have personally experienced each specific form of these types of discrimination entitled to comment on those forms? I wonder, what other subjects could we not possibly have valid opinions on? And who gets to decide whose opinions are invalid from the start?
Pot meet kettle, indeed.
First, that was a very insulting thing to say. It carries with it not only a personal assumption, but also a large social history.
Second, the writer's primary job is as a statistician, and he has a second job playing gigs around Vancouver. I saw no ads on his blog. What he is saying there makes him no money. Further, what he is saying is fairly similar to what I have said in the past in here, and it should be obvious that I make no money posting here. So, perhaps you could reevaluate your position on why people make comments like that.
Third, he actually put up a second post (link below) explaining what he meant, and acknowledged it was insufficiently clear in the first post. Again, perhaps you could reevaluate your take on his position in light of that post.
https://crommunist.com/2014/04/08/a-second-look-at-white-people-on-offence/
How did he make money? Did you donate something?
Why do you find that comical? Is the notion that a black person experience racism more than you funny in some way?
Why do you find this paragraph funny? Are you saying that racism is not real? That white people don't typically exhibit that self-regard in such conversations? Do you see the remarkable irony in putting that into the same post where you claim the author is scamming money, even though by all evidence he does not earn a cent for this writing?
If we ever disagree about the proper way to conduct a dental procedure, you should assume you are right, and I am "dumb" (actually, inexperience and arrogant) for disagreeing with you, unless I can pull out a boatload of evidence. If you did not, I would question your competence. If we ever disagree about how to set up database structures, I will likely think I am right and you are dumb" (actually, inexperience and arrogant) for not agreeing with me, unless you can pull out a boatload of evidence. Black people deal with racism every day. White people do not. The side with experience is the side that needs to be listened to.
The author did not use the word "dumb", nor "stupid". He used "no experience" and "ignorance". They are not the same thing. If you can get get your emotions out of the way of your brain, perhaps you could respond to what he actually said.
As I mentioned above, while there are certain commonalities to being members of an outgroup, every outgroup also has peculiarities in its treatment. Women are not more likely to be imprisoned, black/gay/trans people are. Gay/trans people has religious opprobrium thrown their way, while black/latino people are followed around by store detectives and subjected to stop-and-frisk. White people can experience discrimination, but they do not experience racism; black people experience discrimination, but most do not experience homophobia. This means there is a limit to what white women, homosexuals, trans, etc. have to say on the issue.
I worked in a cultured marble and bathtub company in highschool/college. There was a Tongan man who ran the place, a true ******* who was the perfect match to the owner's own special brand of assishness (Utah County LDS business owners are notorious for treating employees like filth, and this guy was one of those type of dirtbags). Anyway, this guy hired a lot of Tongans into the higher paying positions, gave them raises, and the best portion of the annual profit "sharing" bonuses while taking his fair share of the white boys' bonuses.
I was a dumb young kid with all the heightened sense of morality that dumb young kids hold, so I wrote a letter to the Vice Chair expressing my discontent with the sitch. Now, being an a-hole company as it were, who do you think this 20 million dollar company had address my concerns? HR? No. I had a sit down and coming to talk with the Head Tongan in charge and that's where it ended. Kind of strange way to address racism charges, especially with a minor. The segregation was so obvious that only a fool would plead innocent to those charges... Anyway 2.0, being an a-hole to employees and hiring people like that guy is sure to cost you. My best friend and I trashed upwards of $30,000 in product over a two week span, and Head Tongan ended up getting busted stealing over $250k worth of product. And that was all they could prove after becoming suspicious and installing cameras. On top of that, they hired 24/7 security which added to the costs in perpetuity.
That experience didn't harm me one bit because I had a strong support system in place to help me along in life (both family and society at large). That's the difference and what I see as the bigger problem than racism in this day and age. Strong support systems overcome any racism, as has been shown in groups of immigrants from
Ireland to Nigeria (25% of Nigerian-American families make over $100,000 btw).
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What the hell is this crap? I rarely, if ever, pull the race card -- and if I do, it is usually in defense of a white person, FFS! Does your stupidity have zero limit? I'm beginning to wonder.
The point of the article is that PoC get annoyed when a white dude in red face paint tells them what is or isn't racist. How would a white dude in red face know what is really racist since white people have never really experienced institutionalized racism in America? The author makes a very good point. I agree with his point but feel though he was putting all white people in the category of this knucklehead and there are plenty white people who don't think like this knucklehead.
Unfortunately, there are too many white people who still don't get it and give fuel to the argument that whites are racists. However, even if I can't understand the annoyance or pain that PoC have to deal with. I have personally witnessed some of the things my two multi-racial nieces have had to endure. My sister received death threats when she started dating a black man. So I've seen some of the ugliness but only have sympathy for those who have had to endure more.
Racism is a human problem and not a specific race problem. However, as the author truthfully stated when you are the majority and have the power to enact laws to impose your racist beliefs on the minority then you should really stop telling the minority how they are suppose feel about racism.
Unfortunately, there are too many white people who still don't get it and give fuel to the argument that whites are racists. However, even if I can't understand the annoyance or pain that PoC have to deal with. I have personally witnessed some of the things my two multi-racial nieces have had to endure. My sister received death threats when she started dating a black man. So I've seen some of the ugliness but only have sympathy for those who have had to endure more.
Racism is a human problem and not a specific race problem. However, as the author truthfully stated when you are the majority and have the power to enact laws to impose your racist beliefs on the minority then you should really stop telling the minority how they are suppose feel about racism.
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So you had a bad experience and then thrashed the place to get back at these jerk people. So how are you any different? I guess I am missing the point. The point of the article wasn't that racism doesn't exist against whites. It was that since white people imposed their racism through laws they were not really capable of being objective to what is or isn't race to the group of people who received this racism from white. The fact that you experienced a small dose of what some minorities have experienced should have been the lesson received that day. Was it?
Why are you afraid?
You mean kind of like religious people and the fake war on religion. Since you didn't read the article, I think you are missing the point. The point is that since blacks and native americans have actually experienced what I call institutionalized racism, it is annoying when the majority of white person who have never experienced this type of racism comment on what is or isn't racist. How would you be able to understand it as a white person? You can't no matter if you've been the victim of being called a "cracker."
It is obvious that the white dude with the painted red face doesn't get it or he doesn't care which ever it is, he probably thinks it is his right to be a insensitive dick. You know if it looks like a duck, has feather, quacks like a duck then it is most likely a duck. I think the message is clear unless one gets all defensive and thinks he is saying all white people are racist which I certainly didn't get from the article.
In reality there is no way white person could understand what black or native americans have been through in this country. Think about it just for a moment. You have to listen to white people talk about their "freedoms" being taken away from them on a daily basis when native americans had their lands taken away, were killed and placed on reservations and blacks were chained up and sold like horse, killed and separated from their families. I believe there are racists in every race. Racism is a human problem but when you are in charge and can make the laws to impose your prejudice on others, now that is real racism.