checkbookdoc
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Yes, makes it even more gray for me.Ahh, that changes things a bit. But just a bit.
Yes, makes it even more gray for me.Ahh, that changes things a bit. But just a bit.
Damn, neighbours selling drugs doesn't sound good bro!!My front door is normally locked, most of the time. Our living areas are at the back of the house, my folks aren't getting any younger and im normally at work until 1230-1am. Also the neighborhood has gone to ****, a woman was murdered round the corner 4 or 5 months ago, we have a bunch of neighbours that sell drugs so there are normally sketchy types about. So doors are normally locked.
Still most domestic locks are pretty useless if you want to get in you will but i dont see why you would make it easier.
I changed my post because after reading an article it says that he was on his feet moving towards her, not in a chair eating ice cream like has been suggested (sounds like he stopped eating when he heard the door open and went to chase off the intruder).
Not sure how you read it but I wasn't blaming the victim for the mistake, he could be making a mistake and not get blamed for it. Those 2 things are not mutually exclusive.When it comes to best practices, I'll take "not blaming the victim for shot".
The word mistake carries responsibility with it.Not sure how you read it but I wasn't blaming the victim for the mistake, he could be making a mistake and not get blamed for it. Those 2 things are not mutually exclusive.
But you can also make a mistake that leads to a situation that is no necessarily your fault and people don't blame you for that mistake.The word mistake carries responsibility with it.
One love made a mistake and was shot.
One love did nothing and was shot.
Which one feels like one love carries some of the blame?
That's a bad example as both carry some blame. Or you can clearly show blame.But you can also make a mistake that leads to a situation that is no necessarily your fault and people don't blame you for that mistake.
Like if a couple gets divorced.. there may be a whole host of 'mistakes' each person made during the mariage but I don't know if you can blame 1 or even both for the divorce.
Sometimes it just doesn't work out.
Well I'll give you another example, you call your friend while he's having dinner with his family and you apologised. Your friend said it doesn't matter and said he'll call you back in 15 min.That's a bad example as both carry some blame. Or you can clearly show blame.
But in the case of the shooting it is a slippery slope to victim blaming. Words matter.
We disagree on the definition of mistake. Happenstance is not a mistake.Well I'll give you another example, you call your friend while he's having dinner with his family and you apologised. Your friend said it doesn't matter and said he'll call you back in 15 min.
In that situation, you technically made the mistake of calling your friend while he's having dinner with his family (i.e., disrupting his enjoyment of the meal), but he does not blame you for it because you simply did not know.
Ok how about you're drilling something and had to get it done before it statred raining.. you pushed a bit too hard and the drill bit broke.We disagree on the definition of mistake. Happenstance is not a mistake.