The officiating was just bad. I think the 2 second thing you are talking about was actually whether or not BYU established possession before a jump ball was called. Judgement call but they didn't imo. It would have been a shot clock violation instead Utah got the ball and a new clock. For most of the game it favored BYU actually. The last 2 minutes definitely favored the Utes. You're right each team had their chances but the officiating was bad.
No, that play was explained on the radio and sounded legit. The one I was thinking of was part of the first half.
It doesn't matter though. Even in a close game I can't blame even bad officiating for a loss unless its super bad and all in favor of one team. It takes a ton of really bad calls one way for me to blame refs on anything in basketball. Much different than a bad call in a close game in football.