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JustTheTip said:
I do agree with you.

However, what's the point of being constructive when it's been done over, and over, and over, and the individual has a history of not listening to the advice? Case in point, the "do I text her or not?"...overwhelming majority was to not do it. Does it anyways. I mean, why freaking bother try to help if he's not going to listen anyways?
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So why respond at all, then?
How long did you keep your chest puffed out after basically telling him he's a douche?
 
Agree that a new hobby will help. Expand your circle of friends. Don't do **** just to meet a girl. Do things to have fun, and join social groups to do these activities. Ski, kayak, bike, travel, join a dodgeball league, join a cult, whatever.

As far as cars go, imo, buying a cheap/older german car is a bad idea. Look at the average repair cost for a Merc or Audi. I stay in the Toyota family as reliability and resale is amazing (the resale makes me tend to buy new toyotas as the used prices are a bit nuts), and replacement parts are reasonable and easy to source.
 
JAZZGASM said:
Agree that a new hobby will help. Expand your circle of friends. Don't do **** just to meet a girl. Do things to have fun, and join social groups to do these activities. Ski, kayak, bike, travel, join a dodgeball league, join a cult, whatever.

As far as cars go, imo, buying a cheap/older german car is a bad idea. Look at the average repair cost for a Merc or Audi. I stay in the Toyota family as reliability and resale is amazing (the resale makes me tend to buy new toyotas as the used prices are a bit nuts), and replacement parts are reasonable and easy to source.
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Good first paragraph.
I'm out on the car discussion.

Same thing I told my son. He was all depressed because he and his girlfriend broke up and he responded by "needing" to find another one.. and came off like it.
I convinced him to take a 6 month break and just go have fun with his friends.

They started going four-wheeling, having bon fires.. and guess what? Girls wanted to join in on all the fun. Almost overnight he was the hot guy that girls fought over. He probably dated 20 girls in two months. He couldn't get serious because he was having too much fun with his friends.
 
Dr. Jones said:
Making a case as to what someone else should do evidencing what you had done is dumb.
Also, wanting to please is a very good trait.. while coming off a needy bitch is not, imo.

You guys should try a little harder to be constructive rather than destructive.
It makes you come off as insecure, like OL.
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Semantics. Anyway, aiming to please by getting on your knees and begging is pathetic. That's all. Now **** off, Cowboy.
 
Dr. Jones said:
So why respond at all, then?
How long did you keep your chest puffed out after basically telling him he's a douche?
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Oh please. After years of this, a little hard truth is needed. I've been there before, acting the same way. Somebody having a difficult conversation with me helped. Can't just tell people what they want to hear.
 
JustTheTip said:
Oh please. After years of this, a little hard truth is needed. I've been there before, acting the same way. Somebody having a difficult conversation with me helped. Can't just tell people what they want to hear.
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Okay good.
You're a dick and should consider being nicer.
 
JAZZGASM said:
Agree that a new hobby will help. Expand your circle of friends. Don't do **** just to meet a girl. Do things to have fun, and join social groups to do these activities. Ski, kayak, bike, travel, join a dodgeball league, join a cult, whatever.

As far as cars go, imo, buying a cheap/older german car is a bad idea. Look at the average repair cost for a Merc or Audi. I stay in the Toyota family as reliability and resale is amazing (the resale makes me tend to buy new toyotas as the used prices are a bit nuts), and replacement parts are reasonable and easy to source.
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You can look at a car as a tool or you can look at a car as something to be excited about. I'd buy a used BMW, Audi, etc. over a new Toyota, Chevy, etc. every time, not for image, but because I like cars that perform exceptionally. But nothing screams boring louder than pulling up for your hot date in a Toyota Camry. A Tundra on the other hand gives off a good manly vibe.
 
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str8line said:
You can look at a car as a tool or you can look at a car as something to be excited about. I'd buy a used BMW, Audi, etc. over a new Toyota, Chevy, etc. every time, not for image, but because I like cars that perform exceptionally. But nothing screams boring louder than pulling up for your hot date in a Toyota Camry. A Tundra on the other hand gives off a good manly vibe.
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Fair enough. I guess i am not the type to date women who care what i drive, at least not for a serious relationship. My point was spending $11k on a mercedes is going to cost you as much or likely more as driving a new camry after you have had a few repairs. But of course we should all drive what we want.

And FWIW,I prefer my 200 series Toyota Land Cruiser to any Audi or BMW SUV (outside of classic muscle, i am not a car person, and my hobbies make a truck or SUV more attractive). I also like bigger vehicles for the safety factor...
 
If you really want to get the girl buy a mini van.

It says:
1. You get so many ladies you need a vehicle to drive up to 6 of them at a time.
2. You have high confidence you are willing to own a mini van despite having no children.
3. You can give her the D comfortably in the back of the minivan.
4. You can move furniture when she inevitably wants to move to your place when she falls madly in love with you.

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If one love is being real about all of this, find a car that let's you do something fun.

Also, girls love outdoorsy guys these days. And nz is a great place to be outdoorsy. Take up skiing and kayaking and get a cool hatchback car that allows for a rack to put your cool stuff on top.

Or drive a van around because it's free. That's fine too. Don't spend your money just to get a girl. Spend your money to enrich your life with things that add to it, and if you find a girl who wants to be part of that, even better.
 
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