I just got married. Advice?
- Thread starter Archie Moses
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freakazoid
Well-Known Member
What the hell?
I knew trout had a thing for McKell, but I never knew Trout was a chick.
Trout's hot. For a chick.
Does she lift weights?
I knew trout had a thing for McKell, but I never knew Trout was a chick.
Trout's hot. For a chick.
Does she lift weights?
CONAN
Well-Known Member
Ya, don't be so into each other.
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Deleted member 95
Guest
Congrats dude.
Oh ****, Archie is probably bumpin uglies as I type this. ****.
Eh. I kid. He lasted 15 seconds, and then pretended to quickly fall asleep due to the awkwardness of it all.
Oh ****, Archie is probably bumpin uglies as I type this. ****.
Eh. I kid. He lasted 15 seconds, and then pretended to quickly fall asleep due to the awkwardness of it all.
jazzmanian devil
Well-Known Member
Congrats Archie,
Since my marriage experience is much longer then yours I think I am entiteled to give you lots of important advices to get you through the ups and downs of marriage... ok my one and a half month of marriage maybe isn't that much of an experience after all.
Colton's suggestions are just all spot on, but as with any advice you will get here or elsewhere, they can only account for 50% of what you could do to make your marriage work, because the other 50% you can't do anything about it anymore as those are the things you should have thought about before you even decided to marry her.
Since my marriage experience is much longer then yours I think I am entiteled to give you lots of important advices to get you through the ups and downs of marriage... ok my one and a half month of marriage maybe isn't that much of an experience after all.
Colton's suggestions are just all spot on, but as with any advice you will get here or elsewhere, they can only account for 50% of what you could do to make your marriage work, because the other 50% you can't do anything about it anymore as those are the things you should have thought about before you even decided to marry her.
Gyp Rosetti
Banned
To keep that girl, I recommend an implant. Seriously, she's ****ing hot! She's sort of giving me Jennifer Love Hewitt eyes in that pic. Not that I like JHL but damn. Seriously. What's up with your face too? Jesus, you look flaming. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Give her time to do what she wants to do. Without you. Don't be so jealous or insecure that you don't let her hang out with her friends (even if they're guys) without you. And ask her to do the same for you. No matter how much you love each other and want to spend time together, you both need time apart. It's that simple.
Be open and honest with each other. Tell her how you feel, and get her to do the same. Be open to hearing her criticism of you. What she says is valid in her eyes, even if you don't see it or agree with it.
Talk about your finances together. Have a budget and STICK TO IT!!! That's the one thing my wife and I aren't very good at, and it's led to more than one fight.
I agree that the whole "don't go to sleep angry" is a load of ****. Sometimes that's the BEST thing you can do.
I love to surprise my wife with some flowers for no reason. I know it's something she loves as well. The flowers at Sam's Club come with a one week guarantee and are usually fairly cheap.
Oh, and this:
Be open and honest with each other. Tell her how you feel, and get her to do the same. Be open to hearing her criticism of you. What she says is valid in her eyes, even if you don't see it or agree with it.
Talk about your finances together. Have a budget and STICK TO IT!!! That's the one thing my wife and I aren't very good at, and it's led to more than one fight.
I agree that the whole "don't go to sleep angry" is a load of ****. Sometimes that's the BEST thing you can do.
I love to surprise my wife with some flowers for no reason. I know it's something she loves as well. The flowers at Sam's Club come with a one week guarantee and are usually fairly cheap.
Oh, and this:
good, honest communication is very important, but knowing when to keep your mouth shut is equally important. learn it and practice it. that's probably one of the toughest aspects.
you don't have to comment on everything, or resolve every issue, at least not immediately.
as it's been said already, sometimes you just have to go to bed angry. I'm not going to advocate "sleeping on the couch" but sometimes it's just best if one of you calls it a night before the other, because otherwise, the discussions and arguments just keep resurrecting themselves, it's like in the sit-coms only it's not as funny.
oh, and Congrats again - you two look wonderful! And congrats to jazmanian devil as well on your recent marriage.
