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Is sex overrated?

Is sex overrated?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 11 34.4%

  • No.

    Votes: 21 65.6%
  • Total voters
    32
Gameface said:
...mutually satisfying sex creates very strong bonds.

So banging for the sake of getting off, yeah, overrated. But putting in the selfless and compassionate thought and effort to truly satisfy your partner as part of your long term committed relationship...not underrated at all, no way it could be. It is extremely important.
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This, 100%!
 
I haven't read this thread, but I will say this: Sex is NOTHING like the porn I used to watch when I was a youngster, and it isn't even in the same universe as what my teenage fantasy years had cooked up. Just like NOAS, I had some sultry (and more than my share of hogs, tbh) hunnies that had no business being in bed with me, and it still couldn't compare with my worst wet dream.

In short, yes.
 
The Thriller said:
Nice personal attacks. You never miss a chance to get digs in, do you?

Nevertheless, it was a good post and I don't necessarily disagree with it.

However....

If sex and marriage is so great, then why are so many Americans running away from it? If marriage is so great, why have most industrialized countries practically ended it? So many more people are finding satisfying happiness in meaningful jobs, careers, education, and other means. We are no longer a limited, stuck in a village/farm, zero opportunities people. Even when you look at the LDS population. More women are going to school, more men are finding careers, and even Mormons are marrying later (or staying unmarried). Is this a good trend or bad, I don't know.

To me, I have some serious doubts about that whole sex and marriage and kids stuff. I hope it can be incredibly satisfying. And I don't doubt for a second what you said about sincere loving sex can be very underrated in a long-term committed relationship. However, is it really any more satisfying than having a good career? Or freedom? If it is then why are so many getting out of these relationships?

For me, I'm all about freedom, traveling, having money, and my career. I've dated girls. Cali, Arizona, Idaho, even foreign. Some more serious than others. Utah County? Been there done that. it was sometimes fun. Mostly annoying, stressful, petty, wasteful, and took away from my freedom.

IMO, sex and "love" in general is overrated. If marriage or great long-term committed sex and kids occur in my travels or career/life, cool. If not, I doubt I'm missing on much. Flame away.
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I didn't read more than a sentence or two. You are ****ing weird.
 
here's one person's opinion:

If you're a pessimist, it's overrated - if you're an optimist, in underrated.


Or maybe it's the other way around.


"bottom" line (ho, ho, ho... no homo) - everyone should have at least a couple of really good sexual experiences under their belt before they decide how to answer the overrated or underrated question (whether or not "love" is part of that is up to the individual)



Then if they decide they just want to eat bananas and mangoes while watching the gibbons at the zoo, at least they'll be making an informed decision.
 
The cleveland steamer is over-rated, that is for sure.

Fishhook is rated about right.
 
Beantown said:
Is anal overrated? What about a rusty trombone?
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You ask a question like that about anal relations and have an avatar of a shirtless Zach and AC from Saved By The Bell. Do you have a secret that you'd like to share with the rest of the class Mr. Beantown?
 
default said:
You ask a question like that about anal relations and have an avatar of a shirtless Zach and AC from Saved By The Bell. Do you have a secret that you'd like to share with the rest of the class Mr. Beantown?
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It's cool, yo. As far as I understand it, Indians believe it is symbolic of plowing the muddy fields in order to have a good crop for the upcoming harvest. Downs is just trying to get in touch with Mother Earth.
 
E.J. Wells said:
It's cool, yo. As far as I understand it, Indians believe it is symbolic of plowing the muddy fields in order to have a good crop for the upcoming harvest. Downs is just trying to get in touch with Daddy Earth.
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Fix-ed.
 
I think I might switch from right-hand to left, later tonight.



Will report my observations soon thereafter.
 
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