Chad Feldheimer
Well-Known Member
In 4th grade I wrote "F Mrs. Skeehan" (who was my 4th grade teacher) on the inside of my book. Some student ratted me out and I had to write her an apology letter. I don't know why that wouldn't be appropriate here. I also have no idea why schools look at suspensions as their first line of disciplinary action. As someone who hated going to school it wasn't even a real punishment when I got suspended (other than the punishment I received at home for getting suspended. I do remember thinking "hey I may be grounded but at least I don't have to be at school for a few days"). Plus it puts a hardship on the parent(s) who have to deal with their kid not being there, and it possibly sets the kid behind in school which doesn't seem to have many positive consequences down the road.
Maybe I'm pretty insensitive to things, but if I were a teacher and some dumb 13 year old wrote that they wished a terrorist would kill me I would just roll my eyes at it. And in this case it was a parent of a friend who ratted the kid out to the school. Sheesh, what ever happened to contacting the kid's parents?
Not saying suspension was the only appropriate punishment for that. Just saying I wouldn't disagree with it if the school felt like it was. Apology letter is definitely a good idea suspended or not suspended. We went to school in a different age. We didn't have Facebook when we were in middle school. Who knows how many kids saw that. If she gets suspended and they make her an example of what happens when you do dumb stuff like that it probably would be more effective in discouraging others from doing it.