Judging from your answer I think you misunderstood what I was asking in this context.
Thak you r for claifying.
I was asking whether you thought physical means where the only way to control someone,
No.
and I was asking if you thought it was still noble to control someone if it was done in order to protect someone else?
It could be.
If you felt one word was more or less venomous than another, it's because of your own predisposition, not my words.
Words have their own history of usage, the cultural connotations that come with them. They don't belong to me, but to the culture as a whole. I know there can be a variety of reasons for a person to be ignorant of such connotations, but most of them are relatively rare.