Moe, do you agree for the push to have everyone view these relationships as "equal" or the same?....or do you believe it is better to recognize our differences and embrace them?
First of all, I don't believe it's an "either - or" proposition. Furthermore, I categorically do not like the way you use the term "equal" in this sense - - no relationship of any sort is equal to any other relationship - - just like apples are not equal to oranges. They have similarities, they have differences - they may have equal nutritional value for some components, they may have equal size and weight in some cases, but that still doesn't make apples equal to oranges.
So I would say the best course of action is to recognize areas of similarity as well as areas where there are differences. It is not just one or the other.
As to N_A_O_S - maybe it should be New_Animosity_Old_Stupidity.
I'll just say that one of my peeves is when someone takes another's post, quotes it with their own changes and calls it "Fixed" Sometimes it's done with good humor and it's funny, but when it's done purely for the sake of animosity and derision, it's not so funny to me.
New_Anonymity_Old_Sage said:...With respect to the issue of sexuality that means that we must throw away the general categories of "heterosexual" and "homosexual" because, logically speaking, that would be making this same error: the general category, or whole, subsumes the particular experience. In other words, there is no "heterosexual" and there is no "homosexual"; every body has different desires. You can imagine a spectrum ranging from hetero- to homo-sexual...
But I will say that the points you make in your last post (quoted above) reflect my line of reasoning as well. I too believe that there is a spectrum, and I think it's difficult to know for sure how much cultural and societal norms influences our behaviors. I also think our knowledge on this subject is evolving (LOL) and it's difficult to predict what science may discover in the future.