Bean, the intent of hammering you in the fashion I did was mainly spurred by what I perceived to be your dance around the topic. You made it clear that you don't approve of gay marriage - hell...it's your opinion, that's fine - but your reasoning just didn't sit well. I mean, you say we should respect the institution of heterosexual consummation of relationships, which is one thing, but then you somewhat sweepingly denounced the role that homosexuals have had throughout the course of time.
Really this topic changed from a stance of "gay marriage: yes or no?" to one of "homosexuals: evolutionarily created or products of abuse/environment?" We tried confronting you (admittedly harshly) with some (what I took to be) sound, reasoned, scientific thought/background/evidence, but by claiming that it was false without having fully absorbed the material, I took your comments as an affront to those who want nothing more than to borrow one meager word. Whether or not homosexuals are made from environment or evolution, they cannot help being homosexuals and we should not punish them for it by disallowing their marriages.
And no, I didn't vote for Mr. Obama. This just happens to be a subject that I lean toward the left on.
Frankly I am surprised that Obama doesn't care for usage of the word "marriage" and it's application to homosexuals: (A) As a democrat I would expect him to endorse homosexual marriage, and (B) being African American, I would think he would be more sensitive to the plight of minorities trying to claw their way up. But that's neither here nor there.
Officially I want to apologize for having gone so hard on you. I think we all suffered a bit of a case of elevated emotions.