So I had to be a . . . . . well. . . . donkey. .. ., yesterday. My wife and her sister, yammering about my nephew who has gone to live with his dad.
I swear, if I was a kid to either of them, I'd be gone, too.
Good kid, was getting mostly A grades, planning to go to medical school eventually so he wouldn't have to be a grease monkey like his folks. Literally dreamed of having a respectable job in the upper middle somewhere, that didn't involve taking a bath in goop at the end of the day. Already a proficient repair serviceman who could easily earn a decent living.
Religious kid, when he was twelve he prayed for his pup with parvo, and cared for it, and beat the odds. Even vets lose nine out of ten parvo pups.
Started quarreling with mom when he was sixteen. No ordinary mom, mind you, a real battle axe. She bragged about how no man could handle a real "Prideful Family Name Here" woman. Her grandmother left an imprint on generations of (PFNH} women, teaching them to play the piano and feign helplessness in general. Grandma told her daughters that men would just abuse them and let them do all the work if they caved, and let out the secret that there was actual competence inside. But, incongruously, with temper tantrums, near bp mood swings as needed to achieve compliance, and acid language. And the looks to make it plausibly worthwhile to some to live with all that, even if "No man can be allowed to "win"."
The underground railroad dad is said to be immoral, hooked on porn, and a deadbeat in every known relevant measure. And allegedly wants his kid to take over his business and do all the work, so he can spend more time and money drinking. (And, it seems, perhaps a tad more respectable than I am. Nothing can ever be as inexcuseable as a rebel who just won't comply with power-conscious hijackers of any form of government.)
A real poster child for "there is NO excuse for this, not even a Woman."
So with four credits short of high school graduation, the kid is supposedly taking dad's advice, and just going straigt to HV/AC school so they can have a business in Phoenix.
Now I've done my level best to paint both parents in the worst possible or even imaginable light, but I do think brevity demands the concise description of the problem.
I consider the rebel to be a perfectly fine, normal male at the age of independence. Anybody know how to reach this kid, and re-connect him with his own dream??????
So I shot my wad, and literally mocked the women for their conspiratorial plans and techniques on how to manage to recapture the flown bird. Said nothing they could do would work, and that it'd be best if they just didn't even try, and loved the kid regardless.
I swear, if I was a kid to either of them, I'd be gone, too.
Good kid, was getting mostly A grades, planning to go to medical school eventually so he wouldn't have to be a grease monkey like his folks. Literally dreamed of having a respectable job in the upper middle somewhere, that didn't involve taking a bath in goop at the end of the day. Already a proficient repair serviceman who could easily earn a decent living.
Religious kid, when he was twelve he prayed for his pup with parvo, and cared for it, and beat the odds. Even vets lose nine out of ten parvo pups.
Started quarreling with mom when he was sixteen. No ordinary mom, mind you, a real battle axe. She bragged about how no man could handle a real "Prideful Family Name Here" woman. Her grandmother left an imprint on generations of (PFNH} women, teaching them to play the piano and feign helplessness in general. Grandma told her daughters that men would just abuse them and let them do all the work if they caved, and let out the secret that there was actual competence inside. But, incongruously, with temper tantrums, near bp mood swings as needed to achieve compliance, and acid language. And the looks to make it plausibly worthwhile to some to live with all that, even if "No man can be allowed to "win"."
The underground railroad dad is said to be immoral, hooked on porn, and a deadbeat in every known relevant measure. And allegedly wants his kid to take over his business and do all the work, so he can spend more time and money drinking. (And, it seems, perhaps a tad more respectable than I am. Nothing can ever be as inexcuseable as a rebel who just won't comply with power-conscious hijackers of any form of government.)
A real poster child for "there is NO excuse for this, not even a Woman."
So with four credits short of high school graduation, the kid is supposedly taking dad's advice, and just going straigt to HV/AC school so they can have a business in Phoenix.
Now I've done my level best to paint both parents in the worst possible or even imaginable light, but I do think brevity demands the concise description of the problem.
I consider the rebel to be a perfectly fine, normal male at the age of independence. Anybody know how to reach this kid, and re-connect him with his own dream??????
So I shot my wad, and literally mocked the women for their conspiratorial plans and techniques on how to manage to recapture the flown bird. Said nothing they could do would work, and that it'd be best if they just didn't even try, and loved the kid regardless.
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