PearlWatson
Well-Known Member
"fair" has always been an ideological pipe dream. The offspring of bad mothers have never had very good chances of survival, in any species.
In regard human freedom or survival, bad government hasn't proved helpful, either.
humans who want children and who protect and nurture their offspring, and who value human freedom, will by all odds prove to be the successful progenitors of the species.
By that standard, folks without those commitments just are not the mainsprings of human progress.
Meanwhile, folks are already cultivating fertilzed ova in fertility clinics through several stages of development, and these clinics are already flush with legal forms requiring the signatures of both mother and father in regard to the disposal/use of these humans, except unwed fathers are completely disregarded, and even recently divorced fathers may be disregarded, just as in adoption decisions. Nobody knows how many men are just never told about their potential kid.
They should be, but they aren't. I have friends who adopted a baby of an unwed mother and when she was 6 months old the sperm donor showed up with a free lawyer to try to take her from them. They had to spend thousands to try to keep their adopted child.