Bucknutz, I don't agree with your defense of church leaders here. Maybe it seems logical to you that children should report sexual abuse to someone if it happens by a bishop, but I know many, many examples of that not happening. My sister, for example, was quite large breasted as a teenager, and our bishop at the time made several inappropriate comments to her. No, he didn't touch her, but he made her feel terrible. But he was the BISHOP, appointed by God. So somehow she believed she had done something wrong and didn't tell anyone for many years. She became anorexic during this time. This is a big problem with a male leader being alone in a room with a child or teenager. There is no one to hear or see.
But, as you say, there are people that you can report to. Except often women are not often believed because there is no way that such-and-such leader would ever do such a thing. It happens so often. The woman is the one who is chastised and punished. Again, there are so many examples of this among people I know.
Women in the LDS Church know that their position is the submissive one, no matter what they say over the pulpit. Everything reinforces it. Add that to the idea that one is not to question god's chosen leaders, and you have all the makings for abuse not being reported by victims.
I'm sure there are plenty of examples of boys/men being abused, but as I am not male I cannot comment on what that situation is like for them.
All the stories of churches trying to bury the abuses does not help anyone feel safe in coming forward.