PearlWatson
Well-Known Member
It is both. if you are "in love" and not happy then I suggest that you are not in love or your relationship needs serious work.
You don't need to be "in love" to treat your spouse in a loving way, and provide a loving home for your child(ren).
Twitterpated feelings are the initial hook but they ain't enough for marriage. You have to be willing to give of yourself in good times and bad, not just expect to feel happy every second in order for you to keep your commitments.