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What's JazzFanz's stance on Marriage Equality?

I'm not sure what "open" means but being nice ain't dishonest unless you're a complete *** incapable of kindness.

You either lie and say to your kids that the relationship is good and loving when it's not, or you're open and honest to them and saying we're pretending to be a loving family just because you, the child, exists.

As I'm saying again, if there's no intimacy or love, merely a "kind" relationship, which I read as no more as tolerant, a child is put into the same position as the author of those articles was in, lacking the ability to relate to the opposite sex, having social anxiety issues, and such.
 
You either lie and say to your kids that the relationship is good and loving when it's not, or you're open and honest to them and saying we're pretending to be a loving family just because you, the child, exists.

As I'm saying again, if there's no intimacy or love, merely a "kind" relationship, which I read as no more as tolerant, a child is put into the same position as the author of those articles was in, lacking the ability to relate to the opposite sex, having social anxiety issues, and such.

Telling them that is abusive, not honest and open. Like I said before you shouldn't talk to your kids about the state of your relationship whether it is good or bad.

They can't relate to the opposite sex if their parents are kind to each? This particular angle of yours is just getting beyond ridiculous.
 
Telling them that is abusive, not honest and open. Like I said before you shouldn't talk to your kids about the state of your relationship whether it is good or bad.

They can't relate to the opposite sex if their parents are kind to each? This particular angle of yours is just getting beyond ridiculous.

Is kind with respect and admiration different than kind without respect and admiration. The answer is most certainly yes. The latter rings incredibly hollow.

At 15 years old, a boy likes a girl. They become friendly enough where outsiders might consider them boyfriend and girlfriend. However, the boy has no idea how to be a boyfriend because he has never seen a relationship before because it doesn't happen in the house. Thus, the boy comes off as aloof and uncaring because the concept of flowers and kisses is completely foreign to him, and he doesn't know why this is because his parents never once told him about the nature of their relationship.
 
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