Well said. I respect your example there.
My issue with the overall narrative is that the US presidential election isn't democracy. We elect our presidents via the Electoral College, and the EC isn't democracy. The EC is a 'threat to democracy'. The system we have is a threat to the system we don't have.
The storming of the capitol was obviously unacceptable but challenging changes to the system in court and questioning the robustness of voter tallies is not only allowed but should be encouraged. Stress testing systems is how systems are improved in every industry, every discipline, every field. Florida is the prefect example of how the voter system improved after being found to be inadequate following the 'hanging chad' bruhaha in Bush v Gore.
Trump's team did push everywhere to argue things were broken, and the system now is stronger, has been hardened because of that stress testing. The EC is now stronger, has been hardened because of that stress testing. If you think the EC is a threat to democracy then Trump is a threat to democracy due to the EC system being more robust. I personally think it is more robust in a way that won't allow a GOP candidate to win but I guess we'll see in this upcoming election.