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Wife cheated on me... again

Joe Bagadonuts said:
Read your post which I responded to. My first sentence was in direct response to what you said. The rest followed from there.
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I already ackowledgeed to GF that I fully see how a person would or does do this. But again, that doesn't make them Satan.
 
I feel for you man. I hate to reduce your problem to a stereotype but this has to be the 9th or 10th time in my life that I've heard this story. Got married young, had a couple of kids, one of the spouses goes back to school and ends up having an affair. Same exact thing happened to my brother-in-law. I think the problem stems from the fact that when you're an adult back in school you're surrounded by people with less responsibilities than you - it's only natural that you start to feel like you missed out on some stuff and it morphs into a reckless or destructive act.

I definitely don't claim to be an expert on these matters but I think at the very least a trial separation is in order. With children so young it's inevitable that your lives will still be intertwined. Maybe that extra breathing room can help you determine if this was meant to be. Good luck!
 
Gameface said:
In Utah the woman will always get custody. I mean she could be a crackhead, abusive, adulterous, crook. She'll get custody and a nice child support check.

Sounds like she pulled the old send me through school and I'll leave when I'm ready to make my own money maneuver. Gotta hand it to her, it's an old trick but it works.
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Gameface said:
lol, Dr. Jones called her a whore.

Whether she thought about it from the start or realized halfway through or after the fact, I bet she sees her opportunities for what they are and his obligations for what they are.
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I agree with you.
 
Tough spot, I'm sorry for you and your kids, and on some level I'm sorry for your wife.

I am also for trying to make it work Whenever and almost however you can, but there comes a point that you can't give anymore. You can stay, she will probably keep doing this and may lose all respect for you, and may resent you...but you get to be with the kids everyday.

You can leave, you get to keep what dignity you have remaining but step into the great unknown with your kids and potential years of drama with her.

Do you think if I pray for your user name God knows who you really are?
 
King Cy said:
Option 2 other than murder: Shave her head and make her walk naked through the streets of the closest major city while people throw food at her.
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Lol
 
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