There are plenty of studies and information showing racism is alive and well in this country. Black people and other minority groups have an uphill battle in many ways. I have shown the information and statistics as have others and you choose to ignore it. Again no group in this country receives more special treatment (which any decent study that looks at advantages/disadvantages people receive because of sex and color) than white males.
White people are in a win win situation and always have been, that win win has compounded over the years. There is a reason white people have better jobs, control money, control more positions of power and are arrested less. You are correct there are little to no solutions when people choose to ignore that racism exists and that people are put in disadvantaged positions. People from all walks of life can succeed that does not mean they have a fair path. I and others are not simply complaining or excusing bad behavior we are acknowledging facts that are happening in life and actively trying to help fix them and treat people no different because of their skin color. You yourself may or may not be racist, I have no idea. But you have taken up the side of people who are racist and are fighting to keep minorities down with claiming racism does not exist on a level that hurts people. I personally believe if you dont see racism happening in your community around you then you are probably ignoring it, blind to it, self involved, dont interact with people much or struggle to see things from other peoples perspective.
Just about an hour ago I checked out at the grocery store and the cashier did not check my id even though my credit card has not signature and says see ID. The gentleman behind me who was dressed about the same as me and was with his wife who was not white paid with a card and they asked to see his id right away. Did this hurt the guy? No, not really. Its not really that big of a deal but it does show this person checking them out judged them negatively because of their skin color and/or made assumptions about them because of their color. I see these things almost daily. That is my anecdotal evidence of it existing and almost every study that is done confirms this happening all the time.