I don't blame women for wanting nothing to do with OL, honestly. I need to be harsh wit you here:
There is nothing more gross than a dude who overthinks what decisions he wants to make, based on what "women" (genuine l-o-l @ this monolithical appraisal of the world's women) want. It's phoney and pathetic, I wouldn't wish that upon even my least favourite of people.
Here is the skinny-- the car u drive won't change ****. So be a ****ing normal human and get what you enjoy the most. Think of economics vs performance, practicality vs. looks, and cost vs reliability.
Try to be authentic to yourself (for once), and get what *you* want. If I had to buy a car right now I'd buy a wagon or a hatchback. Who gives a **** what others think.
And if you don't get rid of this overanalyzing, "gaming" mindset, you'll be single forever.
If you're overly anxious about being single, you'll be single forever.
If you're overly vain without checking your own self, you'll be single forever.