Validation of her reasons for calling it off. If he comes in here and talks **** about her, then she feels justified and right.
Hey Kicky....
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Damn, look at you all calm and reasonable.
I thought you always were.
I thought that was a bit strange as an insinuation too. Perhaps the New Year's cheer is fueling the fires of creative genius or something, causing a warm fuzzy feelgood on random thoughts/questions that ordinarily would be squelched out of reasonable fears of OPIs. . .. Other Peoples' Interpretations. . . . . , otherwise known as the foundation of civilization as we imagine it to be.
OK, frankie, you cling to that liferaft for another week and we'll see if you want to get out of the sun yet, OK?
I'm willing to accept Kicky's notion that the chickex had real class, afterall. But Dammitall, chicks rally around any of their own who get hung up on an emotional reef at low tide, and Kicky needs us. At least for a while.
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Gotcha.
I really liked her, but at the end of the day, she hurt one of my boys. She is public enemy #1 until Tink tells me otherwise.
Reminds me of Karl Malone switching teams. I didn't care how much I loved him or how much he did for MY team, once he jumped ship, the relationship was over.
Reminds me of Karl Malone switching teams. I didn't care how much I loved him or how much he did for MY team, once he jumped ship, the relationship was over.
I was merely saying that I would prefer he have a job than that my issue was marginally less awful. And trust me, the entire thing isn't based on some linguistic misunderstanding or series of misunderstandings.
Thanks. I regarded jazzfanz as a semi-zone of privacy for me in the relationship. I kind of assumed I got the website in the breakup. Some of the financial details (the $30k bonus in particular) I didn't share with her because when it looked like this whole thing was going to work out I didn't want to make her feel bad about my moving for financial reasons. In essence I kept some details back to prevent her from feeling too guilty. In essence, she found out about that for the first time on this website, that's why I'm saying I have to be a little more discrete on here.
And I am hoping there is some path where we can normalize things. It would be ridiculous for me to claim I loved her for all these years and then to behave as if I didn't want her around at all. In that sense, I guess I do care about her feelings still even after she did what she did.
I too hope Fesenko finds a job in the league, both for his sake and yours. It'd be a fun distraction for you, and it's amusing for the rest of us to read about your adventures cheering for the jackpotting Russian.
As to your personal situation, you seem to have a good attitude. It might be natural that one's first inclination would be to demonize the other person, but as you mentioned, you devoted several years of your life to the relationship so you can't deny it. Whether or not you have any thoughts of possibly working things out with her in the long run, you've learned some valuable lessons that can serve you well in any future romantic relationships.
I hope both you and your former girlfriend find your own separate peace with the current situation. Best wishes to you Kicky for brighter days as the new year progresses.
I think that as a Ukranian he may take offense to this.
No, sorry, that was my saying things I don't mean to flaring up again. Kicky said she's reading so we might as well talk to her too.
I think you were jumping to conclusions with Moe. She's the most level headed person on this site and deserves the benefit of the doubt. I'd guess her comments had a personal effect to them.