I guess that's a parting point for us. I don't see contradiction in this like you do.
God says that if we repent, or change, he will forgive and remember whatever it was no more. If we do not change I suppose it is possible to forgive and still remember so as to not replay the same situation over and over.
If you had a good friend that stole something out of your house, and you called that friend on it, and they planned on taking something next time they came over.... it is possible you could forgive them for taking whatever it was, but still not let them in your house again. They did not change, you forgave them, but you still do not need to give them another opportunity to take something if you know for a fact they will try.
That's the way I see it.
I don't think forgiveness must equal having no consequences. You can have forgiveness and still enforce consequences. I forgive my kids all the time for breaking house rules, yet I still enforce consequences for them choosing to break the rules. I see no contradiction in this.
Am I not understanding your point?
You're understanding my point, and thank you for that. Not many people get over the hump in the middle. But we don't get to use the
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If I had a friend that was going to continue to steal things from my house, I wouldn't let him back in. However, alter that from friend to family. Further alter that as he had a perfect track record before the incident(one is not given authority from God on a whim).
In this situation, you have an isolated incident.
But lets follow through with this to it's natural end.
Your friend/brother tells you he's going to steal more things. The intent is still there.
What happens now? You kick him out. You should forgive him at this point, but keep yourself safe, as you'll agree. But don't you think you owe it to your brother to get him some help? Clearly there's a deeper issue here, perhaps cleptomania, or even drugs. This is your dear brother/friend.. shouldn't you want to help him?
Ok. So he doesn't want help. What do you do? Continue to protect yourself, and let him do his thing. Soon enough he'll get caught, thrown in jail. That's a sad thing. You don't have to do anything, but are you not your brothers keeper? You've tried to help him before, and didn't get very far.
So how do you try to help him from here? He has to hit rock bottom, and he's gotta want to change. He has to identify himself as a problem.. the bad guy. And he has to accept that. He has to accept what he's done. The only thing left after that is to move on.
From there, counseling sessions. Probably a years worth. Throughout that year, a big part of his healing will be to try to make amends with those he's stolen from in the past.
At that point,
yes. I'd allow my brother back in to my home.
So lets go through the life cycle
Steal
Have it known to your family that you stole
Keep stealing
Get caught/arrested
Hit rock bottom/Thrown in Jail
Accept what you've done/do your time
Identify there's a problem with who you are
Accept what you've done
Get help/counseling
Make amends/apologize to those you've put out
The way I see it, Lucifer's already hit rock bottom by being cast out. There can't be a worse feeling in the cosmos. He's currently serving time. Is it really that far a stretch to think a once proud and loyal angel to accept that he's been the bad guy?