I can’t tell if you are trying to be funny or if you really believe that. No, Israel is not surrounded by the Taliban. Generally speaking, Palestinian women do not wear niqabs or burquas, but instead they wear hijabs similar to what Ilhan Omar wears.
Here is a video of interviews with people, men and women, in the Palestinian areas.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Q-EAh7SfPg
Your casting of Palestinian men as “insane islamist martyr-types” who “always need an enemy to die against” is also a gross stereotype that I strongly disagree with.
I hear you, and I wasn't speaking of Palestinians per se, more of the whole region and it's various fanatical religious zealots, extending far beyond Palestine. Although Hamas is guilty of the subjugation of women through Sharia enforcements.